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why is she like this?does she really want me to be dead?
my older sister is so mean she calls me fat, lesbian,cunt,slut and other stuff like that.she even tells me to go kill myself.now my younger sister is doing the same thing but she is just listening to my older sister.i told my mam and she just said agnore them i try but it is really hard to.i just feel depressed and empty.even my boyfriend is noticing that somehing is up and he knows im not myself lately.he tries to help me but he cant do anything to help.my older sister has cracked my ribs and she pushed me against the wall and i banged my head.ever sence i banged my head i have been getting really bad headaches.i cry myself to sleep everynight and i just cant handle it any more.please help me i need it.
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what you need to do is stand up for yourself. im not saying to do it back. but you must have control its your body, and your feelings tell your sisters to knock it off! they have no right and its my body and you can not control it only i can. no mater what happens you will feel good for yourself afterwards.
~Kim~
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ok first off, i know its not the best thing when your sis is like that to you , you really need to tell her if you two can talk by yourselves tell her how you feel and everything. and if she dosnt want to listen then right her a note and ask her to please read it, how much does she mean to you! whatever you do dont let her see your depressed, becasue she will begin to bash on you harder not this used to happen to me and my sister soon we both grew up and now my sister is my bestfriedn so even if your depressed now i hope this gives you something to look forward to tell me how it goes keep me posted :)
well i really hope it dosnt get worst and just have faith. if theres anything i can ever do please let me know, btw my name is shenaye my myspace is myspace.com/yourmomschestahir
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I'm guessing you're the middle child? If so:
Older kids can feel a lot of resentment toward the younger siblings mainly because they tend to take away the attention. Middle kids usually have it worst, as you're experiencing, and you need to get out of that house.
Your sister needs severe help, but you also do too. You've been through a lot of verbal & physical abuse from your sister, and it's gonna effect you in the long run. You might be scared of people, & not be too trusting because of what your sister has done to you. Not only that, but your confidence is really going to suffer.
Is there anyone you could live with? A friend, a family member perhaps? You need to do as much as possible to try & get away from your sister because she's a danger to your health, and she's also dangerous to your little sister. Although your younger sister is picking up on it, once you leave, who knows what she'd do to anyone else in the household.
Also, your mom really needs help to. She knows what's been going on, but yet has only told you to ignore it. Your older sister CRACKED your ribs, and banged your head into a wall. If your mom is sitting back & doing nothing but watch it happen, then you need to also consider what kind of mother she is. What kind of mother allows her children to literally kick each other's asses, or gang up on each other? A little fighting is normal, but when you get into a heated argument, & abuse, then something is not wrong, & something needs to be done.
Try seeing if you can live with someone else, and if you cannot, get a lock on your door if you don't have one already. Do your best to stay away from your sister because she could end up potentonially killing you. She's already cracked your ribs, so who knows what else she's capable of. I would actually suggest that you call the cops on her. Something needs to be done, and if you can't handle it, the cops will.
I wish you the best of luck, and I hope your sister & your family gets the help it needs.
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I'd say talk to her but she sounds like she seriously needs help. I think what I would do is talk to a parent seriously and tell them everything. Tell your mom how depressed you are and just let her know how serious this actually is. This is definitely a problem.
Good luck.
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