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falling for guys ALOT then suddenly naturally stopping
im 14/f right now (almost 15) im in 9th grade. ever since i was about 10/11ish i've been liking alot of guys. in the beginning of last year (when i was 13) i fell really hard for this guy and we were pretty good friends too. i'm trying so hard not to like him (because well i asked him if he liked me and he said he didn't but all of his friends said he liked me but i dont know) anyways, i've never liked anyone else since i fell for him. and i'm even trying to like someone else to forget him but it isnt working. is this normal? what should i do? please any advice on this topic will be very appreciated :]
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It sounds like infatuation,its common.Most likely they will fade over time or when a new interest comes up but,id say try talking to him about it,i dont really know what to say to this,but goodluck
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Sounds like someone has a first love. Trust me...first loves are so hard to forget. the saying is true. I have one (i recently turned 15) and no matter what i do i always think about him. You can't like someone else to try to make him fade because it doesn't work. You just need to slowly get over it. You don't need to have a mantra like "I'll stop loving him" or "I am over him"...you will slowly like other people. It might take a while..for me it took 4 years and it differs with different people. Don't worry...just chill and have fun you'll get over him!
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i think that it is normal, mabe you should confront him and tell him how you feel about him, you never know what will happen considering his friends say he likes you. And if you dont want anyone to know about it if he says he would rather be just a friend, since you said he is such a good friend i dont think anyone will have to find out :-) and that would be the worst thing that can happen. It is very probable that he does like you though, it is just that guys dont like REJECTION (i would know cuz i have a bro the same age as me and i know his friends.) and that is pretty much their worst fear. so if you hint to him or let him know some way that you like him, it might just turn out he likes you :-() too
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well Its been about two years, and well he could like you because most guys wont admit it to the girl that they like them. If all of his friends says that he does then he probly does. and yes this is very normal, your not gunna like anyone eles no matter how hard you try just beucase you have your heart set on him. and you cant change no matter how hard you want to. It kinda jsut has to run its corse almost. give it time and look at other guys. and you might just have to talk to him less even if you dont want to.
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