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Guys, Who gets them?
Well i dated this guy for about a month we were friends before this so it was all good and then he broke up with me and well we say we are still friends but we arent the same as before, He has been really distant lately and I have not been the only one to notice this all of his other friends have too. But he has changed alot, and all his "friends" are talking behinde his back and telling me all of this stuff about him like he only used me to see how far he could get, or that he is saying we did stuff that we never did. but then when I ask him about this he denys it and I dont know who to believe. should I believe him beucause there is no reason for him to lie to me about it anymore, or do i believe everyone eles?
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This is a difficult situation. You can't ask us who you should trust because we do not know either of them. The best thing you can do is go with your gut feeling & decide by who you trust more & who is more loyal to you. He was your boyfriend, but would there be a reason for his friends to make those things up? Plus, you did say you aren't friends like he said you would be. I think you should just let it go. It may be difficult, but you do not want to get caught up in it. Tell him that all you want is for him to be honest with you. If he gets mad or keeps denying it, just try dropping it. You aren't dating anymore & you can't change the past so even if all of the things his friends were saying are true, you can't do anything about it. You may want to reconsider being friends with him also, because a dishonest friend isn't a true friend.
-hope that helped!♥
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