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Him Or Him ???
Hey im a 14/f and i have these to guy friends that i have known since 3rd grade and we three are tight andi love them bolth to death!!! And they bolth know that i just broke up with my boyfriend braedon. And obvi. they bolth like me cuz they tolled me and they bolth asked me out. i dont know who to pick one is a skater boy who is like soo sweet and one is really cute and sweet and makes me stuff all da time. so can you help?? who should i pick ?
Love,
tangled in love !! <3
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ok, this may be weird but trick yourself, make one boy #1 and the other#2 and get someone to pick either one or two, if the answere leaves you feeling like you got punched in the stomache(kay maybe just like a bad feeling) then you know to choose the other boy....
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you never said if you like either of them in that way. that should influence your decision the most. who are you most attracted to? as for me, the guys i like are always funny and if theyre not i cant tolerate them. which one makes you laugh more? and also think about who you look forward to seeing the most. like when you wake up in the morning, do you think about either of them? think about everything before you decide
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hey
well, in the end, you have to make the choice.
make a list of pros and cons for each boy. who would you be better off with as a boyfriend? do they treat you right?
boy 1 -
pros: ... , ..., ...
cons: ..., ..., ...
boy 2-
pros: ..., ..., ...
cons: ..., ..., ...
or pick the one that you think you like more.
think about what you will lose / gain by going out with them. do their friends like you? are they nice, caring? do they go out of their way for you?
ps - dont feel pressured. think it out. if you rush, you might regret it.
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Pick the one you've got more in common with, the one who's company you enjoy most, and the one you see yourself being happy with.
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