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Want to save the friendship!
My best friend is a guy. I like him as a little more than a friend...but I value our friendship far too much to make it awkward by telling him. Anyway I think he has a clue, and I think he likes me sometimes. (He's a huge flirt - it's hard to tell.)
Thing is - I called him up Friday night to come over and watch a movie. We watched the Davinci Code - a long one. We were both pretty tired, and of course we talked throughout it and weren't like, on top of eachother or anything. :-P
Anyway, during the movie in the middle somewhere, my guy friend joked, "watch us just fall asleep and not get up til morning, haha :)".
And...I was really tired and wanted to rest my eyes, so I shut them and sort of leaned on him a little, but I'm pretty sure he didn't mind, cause he was kinda close to me the whole time. Eventually I was sort of half-asleep but just enjoying the moment. A lot ...because even though I'm only 13, it seemed romantic to me ;D haha...and I'm all about wanting romance =P.
So my question is this - afterwards he didn't seem mad, but just sort of calm about it, and woke me up. But I knew I was leaning on him, I was just sort of half-sleeping. -
Did that make him feel weird? Because he's been acting a bit strange at school, like he isn't talking to me much. And as if he's annoyed with me or something.
I really hope I didn't do anything to mess things up - we've known eachother about a year but went through alot, including my father's death, and I feel so close to him. I hope he didn't mind my leaning on him.
It's just weird seeing him at school, because he doesn't seem to want to be around me. It's like I'm some annoying pest or boring person, when I'm not even doing anything...that I know of.
Any ideas why he may be acting this way?
sorry so long:( but I really want to save this friendship. Thanks sooo much if you took the time to read this. :-)
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hey i know this can be very complicated- liking ur best friend and all. i am going through the same thing. ok well wat i did was actually tell him that i liked him. talk to him about it. first ask him if he is mad at you or if you have done something to annoy him. then tell him that you like him as more than a friend. if he says he doesnt like you that way then tell him thats fine and that you dont want it to affect your friendship. if he says he likes you well then thats very good! =) he might just be shy about the whole thing and not really mad at you at all. maybe he just doesnt know wat to say to you. and its ok im only 14 and i love romanticness! =p any time my best friend who i like does or says something romantic, i basically melt. lol i know! well good luck. anything you need leave me a message in my inbox.
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Call him up, or talk to him in school and just straight up ask him if something you did is bothering him. Thats the best thing to do. Theres many possibilitys of whats going on. He could have feelings for you, and thinks that you have feelings for him,but that your not doing anything about it. Or, he just felt it was awkward. Hope I helped! Happy SPring!
-Brina
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Do you have his screenname or his phone number? If so, call him/IM him and talk to him about it. Ask him why he's been acting weird around you lately, and ask if you did something wrong.
If he tells you nothing's wrong, & you still think there is, leave it alone anyways. If you try to get something out of him, he'll really get annoyed & won't wanna talk to you at all.
Or just give him time. He should come around eventually. =)
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