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Mindless/Deep?
<b/> i have an alter ego, and it is beggining to make me wonder. i am the type of person who can read Gossip Girl one second and then read a westernn book, or a book on philisophy the next second. during the say, i am petrofied of spiders and will not go outdoors if there is a bee, but at night, i will do anything to be outside, alone with nature.i will spend a whole school day just chatting with my friends about clothes and boys, but when i get home i sit there and analyze their personalitys, seeing what makes each of them good friends, and what i need to watch out for. i have happy pop, heavy metal, rock and roll, chilled out, hip-hop/r&b/rap, and clasical music all on my iPod. some says, ill go out in sweatpants and another day im wearing my micro-mini skirt with the 4 inch stiletos. i am wondering why i am so different, why my personalitys contradict eachother. why do i think so much about the meaning of life somtimes, and the other times im thinking about boys, grinding, and my hair. it drives me crazy knowing that while somtimes i have such a good head on my sholders, other times i have the worst sense of what is right and what is wrong. also, if i was only to have one side, i dont know which to chose. i love being able to be insightful, so i would never give that up, but should i give up all of the mindless, moral-less fun i have with my friends? im torn. please help me, my different selves are confusing me! thank you so much, i know nobody likes to read about me talking about myself for pages and pages.
xoox,
BubblyGirl
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Mindless or Deep? Hmmm.. I choose: Both. Why would you want to give either one of them up? I mean, it's good to be insightful at times and its good to be what you say, "mindless", hey but its not mindless... it just acting like a teenager acts. And that's just who you are and I know youre probably confused since it's so different.. but you can't change that and be glad you have both and not just like... a total mindless bimbo who only cares about the stupid stuff in life like boys, kissing, ect. Just be you and dont try and change it;)
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well, why cant be both?
just like the other person said, these two completely different personalities make up one you! i used to be just like you (i had two completely different personalities), but then i just came to accept that, and acted whatever i felt like, and not trying to stick to only one personality.
it just shows that you have a good head on your shoulders. you are a smart girl, but you know how to have fun, too.
honestly, i think you are one of the few people in the world who know how to live life to its fullest wisely. i would really hate to lose that.
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what do you mean "what should i do?" and "my different selves are confusing me"? uh, it's not "different selves", it's just YOU. you have diverse interests and multiple qualities in your personality... there's nothing wrong with that! there's nothing to "give up"... it's just who you are, and you shouldn't hide either side.
i know you're probably thinking "seriously, what do i do, HELP ME IM CONFUSED" but there's really nothing i CAN say because you're always gonna be you, your tastes are gonna evolve over time and no matter what side you decide to "give up", you'll find that you're not really giving it up, just hiding it, or ignoring it, but it's not gone, because it's you. DON'T change yourself!! otherwise, you're, well, not being who you are, and do you really like people who aren't themselves? exactly.
Probably sounded like a load of bull, but listen to me, i know what i'm talking about=) i hope i still helped, though=)
~Mari^_^
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This is just like me. You are just trying to be everything you want to be. You are trying to fufill your desires in life, and trying to be everything. I think that it gives me a mysterious side- this person by day, superhero by night kind of. Lol. Dont worry about it though. You are just experimenting. It is kind of fun :]
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