But my bff has this crush on a boy and i met him today. and oh my gosh he's so cute and funny and a type of guy i would like and he just seems like a guy for me. but she really likes him. and i know i'm not stupid i'm not going to tke him or be like hey bff i like him now too and ruin our friendship cause that just messed. but idk what to do to stop myself from liking him and right now i just want a guy so bad. i know thats so stupid but right now i don't have crush to crush on i have nothing no one and idk what to do. i don't wanna like him but i think i'm starting to and i can't help and i don't know what to do to stop liking and i just don't wanna stop talking to him. so do i just let myself like him and try to control the flirting and not tell my bff? or what?
singingqueen answered Saturday March 31 2007, 10:11 pm: I think you should be able to like him, if your friend is a true friend she will understand. Me and my friends always like the same guys and if one of us are lucky to go out with him we are proud of them. tell ur friend i bet she will understand.
DrPlayer answered Saturday March 31 2007, 9:31 pm: First of all let your bff have first dibs. Relationships especially at your age only last a short time but good friends last forever. If they go out chances are you'll see some qualities in him you may not like and realize you don't like him after all. When they break up and if you still like him wait for your bff to get a new boyfriend then you can try that one. [ DrPlayer's advice column | Ask DrPlayer A Question ]
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