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hellp! =)
hey okay i have 2 questions!
my first one is about this guy i no.. & i guess i kinda like him. he has a girlfriend tho. whenever we're together he always flirts w/ me & talks like about how his girlfriend never wants to do anything with him and its getting him reealyy pissed off..they've been going out for like a looonng time.. like mayb 2 + a half yrs.. so yeah idk if he likes me or nottt.
anddd my 2nd questoin isss about my ' best friend ' we used to do everything together. and ive known her for lik 9 yrs. now shes like making all these new friends and like.. not really putting any effort into being my friend. like i cant even explain how close we used to be. now shes hanging out with her other friend like seriously EVERY SINGLE DAY that shes known for awhile [but not as long as ive known herr..] and i used to be friends with her friend.. but not anymore cause we honestly dont get along at all. soo,i gess im pretty jealous.. &im like really confused cause i dont wanna drift apart.. like i love her to deathhh shes always been there.. soo yeahh i dont know what to doo. i really dont wanna lose my best friend..
thankss<3
♥casey
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, about the guy: He could like you, but he also could simply be feeling confined in his current relationship; Like he's trapped. Don't try to be cunning and break them up, because that's messy and you could lose him as a friend. For now, be there for him. If you feel confident enough, you could tell him how you feel. Don't get your hopes up too high because he's taken right now, and you don't know if he'll break-up with her.
About your friend: I think you have to make an effort to hang out with her. Invite her somewhere once in a while. Talk to her. Don't get annoying or clingy, but somehow remind her that you're there.
I also think that you definitely need to talk to her about it. While you two are alone, tell her that you really care about your friendship and don't want to grow apart. Let her know that you really care about her and still want to be a part of her life, instead of being written out of it completely.
Remember to be nice and not to yell. Yelling or becoming openly angry will only make her defensive and she's less likely to listen to what you have to say.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave another one in my inbox!
-Manders
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