|
orgasim/moaning
16/f and my bf is 16/m we have been going out for almost two years now and when he fingers me i dont like moan, shake, or anything...is that ot normal? like he doesnt go "fast" he does it at a moderate pase. please dont tell me to masturbate and find out where i can moan beause i do that. and when he "eats me out" which hes only done once my legs started shaking but nothing else and that lasted very shortly. and when i masturbate i only get to my legs shaking then stop like i really dont know what an orgasim is and i really need some help here?
thanks so much
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
well i don't think that everyone moans or makes noises or anything like that.. people have all different ways of 'getting off'.. but if you're doing anything that might cause you to moan and you feel like you want to, then go ahead.. cause you shouldn't be embarrassed to make noises or shake or whatever in front of the person you're doing things like that with.. like, if you're too embarrassed to make sounds or whatever in front of the person you're fooling around with, then why are you even doing anything?. so to answer your question, it's perfectly normal =) and everythings fine.. not everyone shows their orgasms like that, and some fake them. so yes- you're perfectly normal and have nothing to worry about =) idk, but i've always heard that when you have an orgasm you know.. like you really REALLY know.. but i'm not really sure.. haha but don't worry hun, you're fine =)
]
it is perfectly normal to not make any sounds at all.. me and my girlfriend have had sex quite a few times and she dont moan or anything.. But she does make little sounds.. And all the moaning you see in pornography thats mostly acted out.. To make it more plesurable for the viewer.. But not not making sounds is just fine.. Oh and if you dont know what a orgasm feels like im sure you havent had one yet...
]
i'm silent. because i think it's kinda embarrasing to make noises haha. i only shake afterwords sometimes.. it's weird.. it's perfectly normal in order to have an orgasm it doesn't mean you moan because you can have an orgasm and be completely silent... you'll know when you have an orgasm believe me.. maybe if he goes faster than you might moan.. try that
]
Moaning/screaming/shivers arent REQUIRED parts of an orgasm, however they are fairly standard reactions. The best analogy of an orgasm ive heard is this:
"it will feel like being tickled, but way inside, and its like a rocketship of awesome pleasure shooting up and then exploding, and then you want pizza"
Thats not a bad take on it, but the moaning and screaming you see in pornography and related media arent always the standard, some people come to climax in silence.
]
More Questions: |