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My boyfriend and my one month is tommorrow but i have no freaking clue what to get him. I mean i really dont know where he shops and stuff because we have been only going out for a month now and i hardly to get too see him because we go to different schools. Soooo i need your help. Tell me what some of you girls got your bf's for your one month or something. Ang guys tell me what you guys wanted for your one month or just a present. Thanks :]
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~katelyn~
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Most guys i know do NOT expect presents for a one-month thing, make sure HE knows, because 9 out of 10 times, the guy will not know its been a month, we dont keep that exact track of time.

Also, ask his friends!


It seems like such a bizarre question but I’m having a really hard, stressful time lately. At the same time I’ve started to see a guy. I really enjoy being around him and am definitely attracted to him. He makes me feel better and helps me too escape all the icky stresses of my life.

The trouble is, I sometimes worry I’m using him. It’s not like I’m crying on his shoulder each time I see him, I’ve really never done that, but he is definitely my escape from everything else. My best friend thinks he’s no good for me and I’ll end up hurt and she definitely has very good reasons to feel that way, so I know there likely isn’t a healthy solid relationship going to come of this. But I still really don’t want to stop seeing him.

So am I using him if I know this probably wont be a serious relationship and he says that is what he’d like? (link)
As long as you make your intentions clear and speak them directly, not just infer or hint at them, then you are being honest and not using him.


hi im 16/f and i was wondering if anyone knows any really effective workouts that you can do in your home that will help you slim down? i have a dance in a month and i want to try and lose some weight so if anyone can help me that will be appreciated thanks (link)
Theyre right, activity and diet have to both be introduced, and any practice that causes you to lose weight at a VERY rapid pace, is more than likely damaging in the long run to either your weight, or your vital organs.


my best guy friend's girlfriend just broke up with him. i know he's devestated but i also know that we've both always had feelings for each other. him and his gf broke up on saturday, and we went to a party on monday. while at the party we ended up in my friend's bedroom cleaning up. suddenly he put his hands between my legs and started feeling around. then he started feeling me up and i went along with it and did the same because i really like him. we started to make out when i stopped him because i realized that he still isn't over his ex girlfriend. i know this situation will probably happen again. i wouldn't mind doing things with him because he's my best friend but i dont know if i should let these things happen because i know he still has strong feelings for this other girl. im friends with his ex girlfriend and she says that she doesn't have feelings for him anymore and there is no chance of them getting back together so what should i do? (link)
Well stopping him in the middle of the act can leave a bad taste in his mouth about approaching you sexually again, for fear of a second denial.

However, it is very common to seek physical companionship after a breakup, especially if it came as a shock to one of the partners.

i agree with a previous answer, given time, you may be able to pursue a relationship.


i'm going to this thing for school for two days, and we have to bring our own lunch. but i don't know what kind of lunch i should bring. we can really bring anything, but i don't wanna bring something i'm not gonna eat. i don't really want a sandwich, so no sandwiches please. i'm most likely gonna bring chips or some kind of junk food, but i still need to bring kind of like a "main lunch" thing. so any ideas? it needs to still taste good after making it a couple of hours later.

thanks. (link)
Soups, Beans, Chowders and other soupy foods are good, as if you stick them in an insulated thermos, they tend to stay warm at least from morning till lunch, and dont get nasty.

(A trick i do for soup/meat is to leave it in the hot car all day to keep it warm, or in the wintertime, leave cold foods there like a fridge ;))


16/f and my bf is 16/m we have been going out for almost two years now and when he fingers me i dont like moan, shake, or anything...is that ot normal? like he doesnt go "fast" he does it at a moderate pase. please dont tell me to masturbate and find out where i can moan beause i do that. and when he "eats me out" which hes only done once my legs started shaking but nothing else and that lasted very shortly. and when i masturbate i only get to my legs shaking then stop like i really dont know what an orgasim is and i really need some help here?

thanks so much (link)
Moaning/screaming/shivers arent REQUIRED parts of an orgasm, however they are fairly standard reactions. The best analogy of an orgasm ive heard is this:

"it will feel like being tickled, but way inside, and its like a rocketship of awesome pleasure shooting up and then exploding, and then you want pizza"

Thats not a bad take on it, but the moaning and screaming you see in pornography and related media arent always the standard, some people come to climax in silence.


My mom found out how to read my AIM conversations. I feel this is a violation of my privacy but she doesn't care. How can she do this and how can I stop her? (link)
You can password your computer at the bios so that she will not be able to access it at all. You can run spy/adware removal programs, many of them will catch aim loggers. However, not to presume your age, but if you are under 18/still in grade school, then you do not qualify for various privacy rights and free speech, in the best interest of your upbringing.

Also, unless you have something to hide specifically from her, then it's ok for her to read them. You might want to take into consideration that you have a mother that cares enough for you to spend her time finding a way to monitor your online activities, many peoples parents could give a damn what their kids do and how their raised. Many would count you lucky.




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