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It seems like such a bizarre question but I’m having a really hard, stressful time lately. At the same time I’ve started to see a guy. I really enjoy being around him and am definitely attracted to him. He makes me feel better and helps me too escape all the icky stresses of my life.
The trouble is, I sometimes worry I’m using him. It’s not like I’m crying on his shoulder each time I see him, I’ve really never done that, but he is definitely my escape from everything else. My best friend thinks he’s no good for me and I’ll end up hurt and she definitely has very good reasons to feel that way, so I know there likely isn’t a healthy solid relationship going to come of this. But I still really don’t want to stop seeing him.
So am I using him if I know this probably wont be a serious relationship and he says that is what he’d like?
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As long as you make your intentions clear and speak them directly, not just infer or hint at them, then you are being honest and not using him.
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You're not using him, but maybe it isn't the best idea to get into a relationship with him when you both want different things. However if you are atrracted to him and you really like him maybe you should give a serious relationship a try.
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