|
friends
my friends are being critical to me like, "thats so unhealthy your gonna be fatter" thats just an example. also, they only seem to care about their lives and problems. also today i found out that at least two of my friends that i tell everything to are keeping a secret from me, and it hurts. my friends also joke around and make fun of me, but its embarrassing me. on myspace bullitains one of my friends took a survey and the question was "what was the worst thing you ever smelled." she put " (my) farts". i was embarrassed. also my friends were making fun of me in front of this popular girl saying how i don't curse, and all together they were like "ill give you $15 if you say fuck." i didnt, but it was embarrassing . i seem ok on the outside, but im hurt on the inside. nobody seems to care about my feelings. i dont wanna confront my friends, or ditch them.....help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You don't have to ditch them, but i'm recommending you confront them. Communication is important when solving a problem. if you don't speak your mind, no one's going to realize how you feel, and they'll treat you even worse. If your friends are telling you how to eat, and how to talk, then they aren't accepting who you are. true friends accept you for who you are, and try to help out rather than rudely criticize. if they want to embarrass you in front of people they know will react, then that's just cruel. who cares if you don't curse, it's not like it's an accomplishment. good for you that you don't curse. i think you should confront them, because if your friends don't care about your feelings, then they aren't being such good friends.
]
Well you're are gonna have to pick one. You either confront them or make new friends. There's no loophole. If I were you I would talk to them and tell them how you feel, or else they will never stop. If you tell them and they still don't stop then it's time to get new friends.
]
Well, if you don't wanna confront or ditch them, then you might as well take their shit.
]
More Questions: |