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how can he forgive me?
14/f Okay, so I had a boyfriend that was absolutely amazing to me, and we went out for almost a year. Well right before our eleven month anniversary, I started talking to another guy, and he started flirting with me. Then I broke up with my boyfriend for him. After 2 months, I realized that I had had what I was looking for all along, and I wanted that back. SO i broke up with the guy I had been going out with. And now my ex-bf (the one i went out w/ for eleven months) barely talks to me, and I just want him to forgive me and for us to be friends(actually more than that) again. I miss everything about him, and I just wish I hadnt made all the mistakes I made. How can I get him to forgive me or take me back?
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I know this is a very hard thing to do, but you need to be honest with him and tell him the truth. Let him know exactly why you broke up with him. Otherwise, he's probably not going to forgive you. Which is something you obviously don't want to happen, so I recommend talking to him, honestly.
Once you talk to him, it will give you ten times more of a chance at him forgiving you. Rather than not telling him at all.
Good luck!
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Be honest with him, and tell him everything you just wrote down. Ask for his forgiveness, tell him you miss him and you wish you hadn't made all the mistakes that you did. Tell him you had everything you wanted in him and that you want to give your relationship a second chance.But also remeber you hurt him. You broke up with him for some guy you barely knew, and it might take some time for him to forgive you.
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You simply be honest with him and tell him what happened. It will be hard to do and he may not
forgive you, but it is the only way to do it.
Remember he has been hurt. It may take him a while
to want to be friends again, let alone want to date you again. But he might. If he is worth the trouble then give it a try. Good luck. :)
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i know exactly how you feel..but i only went out with my ex for 5 and a half months...anyway...what i think is that if you really and truly loved this guy or the guy you broke up with him for...you wouldnt have gotten rid of either of them
im still with the guy i dumped the other guy for(thats kinda confuseing but yea)
what i would do..is just forget about them...do your best to move on because their REALLY are a bunch of fish in the sea..
dont be all mopey dopey about life..
go with the flow..and whatever happens happens...
but girl..DO NOT CHASE AFTER HIM
guys hate..absolutly HATE clingy girls like that
let him come to you and in the meantime..
crush on a few different guys...
you never know what'll happen
ihope that helped a little bit:/
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