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Baby on the way?


Question Posted Thursday March 22 2007, 3:57 pm

Well see my boyfriend and me kinda had sex it weird. like i'm not goin to go into details or anything but like he got in me and kinda poped my cherry but we stoped but he cumed before. could i be pregnet? becuase i've been worrying about this for like 2 weeks now and i'm only 14 and he's 16. and my mom told us before if we have sex she'll have him go to jail for like sum stupid law. and i'm scared.

help me please.

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Duckies_Are_Awesome answered Sunday March 25 2007, 12:45 pm:
Well, first off I am not going to criticize you for having sex at such a young age, or for doing it with someone who is older. Most young people do have sex, it doesn't make you a slut, you probably just wanted to get closer to your boyfriend. Well, let me just say this your being pregnant all depends on if he wore a condom. If he didn't wear a condom and he came before he was out of you, then the likely hood that you are pregnant is high, if he was wearing a condom then the likely hood is pretty low. As far as I know there is no law that says my daughter had sex I want her boyfriend arrested. Now, however, if you are pregnant and you would have to tell her, sorry, social workers would ask you both if you want to take legal action against said boyfriend. (Legal action meaning like did he rape you and you want him to go to jail.) The only reason I know these things that I am telling you is because I went through this situation, I had sex and the guy didn't use a condom and I didn't know. 3 months later I found out I was pregnant, doesn't mean I'm a slut, I have a beautiful 2 year old son now. So don't let whatever happens influence your dreams, don't let these peoples opinions of you affect you, your not a slut sweetie. Just be more careful.

Hope I helped.

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amamamayyyo answered Saturday March 24 2007, 12:21 am:
your mom can't jail him unless its a charge of rape, and technically she can't do that until he's 18. you have nothing to worry about.

and, yes, from what you've said, you're most likely pregnant. better rake up cash for your upcoming baby if its there.

=[ hope everything turns out fine.
-amy.

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holahayley56 answered Friday March 23 2007, 6:43 pm:
Congratulations, you're a slut!
And, as winning this great and fabulous award, you may have a chane to possibly won a baby!

That was probably the least thing you wanted to here, right? Well, if you're gonna act like a slut, don't you think you atleast deserve the title?

Anyways, theres a chance you could be pregant. Do you feel sick? feel like your gonna throw up? or anything similar to that? Do you even know the symptoms of pregancy? -__- If you don't, I suggest you look it up.

I can't tell you for sure or not, becaise I'm not a doctor. Look up symptoms of early pregancy & everything, & see if you have any of that.

Your boyfriend should go to jail. Actually, I hope your mom does take illegal action. He deserves it. What type of boyfriend do you have? That he would do that to you? He is older & wiser he should be mature enough to know that is wrong. He was just using you. sorreh.


This is reality, love. Weather you chose to actually listen to me, that hes an idiot, and your a slut for doing something like that, is your choice. Everyone makes mistakes though, dump that loser, & get your act together.

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heyimcaro answered Thursday March 22 2007, 7:58 pm:
considering having sex IS the one and only way people get pregnant, then yes, there's a very good possibility you are. and you're fourteen?! my god. please, at LEAST do us all a favor and use condoms. and yes, if your mom does find out you all have sex or you do get pregnant, and your mom decides to take legal action, he probably could go to jail.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday March 22 2007, 5:23 pm:
You could definitely get pregnant from that. Never ever have unprotected sex. Always use a condom. If you don't, the answer is always going to be yes, you can be pregnant. So, use a condom every single time from now on. Go get a home pregnancy test just to make sure you're not pregnant too. Be more careful next time. Lastly, no your boyfriend cannot be arrested for having sex with you. It's only statutory rape if he's legally an adult and at age 16, he's not.

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sam_lost answered Thursday March 22 2007, 4:26 pm:
Its possible you could be. Have you had your period? If you have your not pregnant but if you were supposed to have it but you missed it then you could be. Basically the only way to know is to take a pregnancy test. Good Luck and dont worry or be scared until you take the test, Hope everything goes well

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