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About a week ago I pinched a girl on the buns in a parking lot because I thought it was an old friend of mine. Well, it wasn't! So she turned around, put one hand on my shoulder to hold me still, cocked her other arm back and said: "I hope it was worth it". Then she punched me right in the mouth....and HARD!!!! She knocked out my 2 front teeth!! Asked me if I learned my lesson and I said: "Yes ma'am".
Do you think I deserved it? The worse part about it is that I had to go home and explain it to my wife. Now, not only do I have to go without for 6 months, I have to make her breakfast in bed every morning for 6 months!! Do you think I have it coming just for pinching another girl on the bottom??
katie_babey answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 5:09 pm: yeah i really think you deserved that because you were being kinda stupid. you should of made sure it was your friend before you pinched her butt. I think that your wife deserves breakfast from you because you shouldn't be pinching any girls butt. Also that girl that punched you was right for doing it because i dont think any girl wants a stranger coming up and pinching them.
~katelyn~ [ katie_babey's advice column | Ask katie_babey A Question ]
Alin75 answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 4:19 pm: Absolutely not. For heavens sake be a man. It was a mistake, and thats that. I would not have taken the first punch to the face if I had been you, and most certainly not punishment afterwards from your wife.
You act like you are forced into this. How can someone force you to make them breakfast? You are an adult and this is not your mother.
Also as for the sex thing (if I understood the "without" correctly). I would never ever allow sex to become a bargaining chip. Is she saying that she doesnt normally enjoy it? Is she normally doing it as a favour to you, not as a mutual thing? Because thats what its sounding as now. I would have a talk with the wife and change things up a bit if I were you.
If I did misunderstand the "without" part, then whatever you are going without lol, get it back.
You are suppposed to be equal in a relationship, and this is not it.
Edit: Wait... she asked you if you learnt your lesson after she punched you and you said yes? Seriously man, she knocked your teeth out, how could you possibly think you deserved that? [ Alin75's advice column | Ask Alin75 A Question ]
Razhie answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 4:10 pm: Nah, you didn't have it comming, not the punch or the punishment. It was dumb move on your part but you don't deserve any more punishment then your wife, dentist and friends laughing rather heartily at you for it.
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