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sherriffs sale
My boyfriends ex girlfriend owns the house we are in. He doesnt know that i know the house is foreclosing. We are moving into our new home next month around the 15th. I saw the sherriff auction paper in his car and it is for the 11th. Arent i going to find out eventually??Does the winning bidder push eviction? how does that work.He says he is in a hurry to buy our new house because his ex is pushing him out. Should i be worried that he is so secretive? why wont he just tell me the truth?I wont be angry with him.
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He probably just feels like he needs to be strong for you. The house and issues with his ex are his problems and he doesn't want you to have to worry about anything. If he wants you to know, I'm sure he'll tell you on his own when he feels it's okay. If you're really worried about it, confront him and let him know that it's ok and you don't mind if he shares these kinds of problems with you. If you're going to be living together, it's important for him to open and honest with you.
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well maybe he feels that he'll let yuo down if he tells you AND that he cant support you in that way! u no???!! so i would talk to him and let him no that its ok but make sure you find out the real reason!!! but i sdont think it should be a problem!!! ~ hope it turns out ok
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hey, well you need to talk to him. trusting is something you need in a relationship and if he kept a secret from you -- how can you know 100% that you can trust him the next time? i would talk to him about it and let him know that you found out. also ask him why he kept it secret. let him know that you aren`t made at him, jsut angry that he would hide something so little from you. good luck :].
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I'm sure they have to give you some sort of notice to leave. Unless they have already and he hasn't told you.
Make it easy on him. Tell him you found the flier and want to know whats going on. I mean, will you have people coming in and looking at your house on the 11th, or are people going to bid on it unseen?
It may be he is afraid to upset you. I don't know why he would be so secretive about something so big.
You need to ask him about that and tell him not to keep important things from you. He can't protect you from everything. :)
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