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flirting friend. HELP
Okaay so my friend is such a flirt! its so annoying she will flirt with every freaking guy even when she has a boyfriend! ARGGHHH.. i have told her what she does all the time but she doesn't really care, or she gets mad at me for saying that. any advice?
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Ask other friends if they think she is. Or maybe when you have some alone time with her have a talk about it, she might just blow it off usually because there are other things going on around her that she is into. If that doesnt work then you should probably try to get past it.
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try talking to her again but it probably wont do any good. say that people might think of her as a slut or something. also tell her however, you dont want to change her & you accept her for who she is. say that your just pointing out that you think it isnt right. if it doesn't work dont bug her about it anymore. you'll just have to accept her for who she is & learn to live with it.
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I'm a flirt myself, but I am in general -- not even really on purpose. However, you have already talked to her about this, so talking to her again probably isn't going to help. I would say, if you still want to be her friend, you'll have to respect her ways -- even if you don't agree with them.
You could tell her about what flirting too much with all the guys can do to her reputation, that may help you realize. And what it would do to her boyfriend (when/if she has one), knowing she still flirts with other guys, besides him. This could help her see the light, and start to change her ways.
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Let her know that if she flirts with to many guys around the same time period, people start to talk. And she might start to get a bad reputation. Let her know that you don't want people to think of her as something she's not, so maybe she should try to tone the flirting down.
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i know you want to make her stop and she probaby gets mad at you, yea im just like your friend but just let it be for right now she will probaly find out the hard way just be there for her
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