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ex now wants me back? HELP?
Ok well I had this bf, and everything was going great! But for some reason he broke up with me. out of the blue and then treated me pretty poorly. I took me a while to get over it. but now its a little over a year later and he left me a message on myspace saying that hes never stopped loving me?
i'm soo confused by that b/c hes the one that broke up with me!
I was pretty hurt, and don't knwo if i can trust him but then again i liked him a lot and i can't just turn me head. HELP!
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Well to tell you the truth I am dealing with the same issue but I'm on the other end, I like him. Anyways I think that you need to look deep into your heart and think real good. Is this yet again another fling or does he really care about me like this. You need to think do you get a fluttery when you talk to him or how did you react when he told you that he never stopped loving you. Also think about is there a big party coming up and that he just wants to hook up with you to make an ex jealous? But if I were you he sounded like he has spilled out his heart to you and if he's not kidding and he really does care then if you shoot him down because you don't want to take a chance in getting rejected then you need to know that life is never perfect and that you need to take a chance and if he does really care then happily ever after if not, then you now know that you learned that he is not for you. So in other words give it a chance.
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tell him how you feel. be like, "i felt so strongly about you and you just broke things off with me for no reason and left me stranded with no support at all. i don't know if i can take you back if you're gonna keep being so secretive. we need to talk things over." don't completly ignore him though, because there's always the chance he had a very good reason... you don't want to let true love pass you by, but you don't want to be too easy either.
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hey
look, this is my opinion and you don't have to listen to it, but i don't think you should go out with him.
he obviously is lying cause if he did "love" you and never stopped, then why would he treat you so badly, or even break up with you? it's a total lie, sweetie, and you can't fall for it.
i know you liked him a lot, but he did hurt you. and you have to remember that. what if he does it again?
you should be the strong one. tell him he really hurt you and you aren't sure whether you can trust him again or not.
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