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Popularity.. NOT
Well In my School There are TWO popular Groups.. I am In one of them.. Barley though.. I am not even that popular i dont even know how i managed that. I mean its not like anyone pays attention to me in that group anyways but sometimes they do.. You can basically say that im the least popular in that group.
Well In the other Popular Group Those Girls are like SOOOOOO PRETTY its not even funny I wanna be just like them.. I wouldnt say i am the ugliest out there and i dont think i really am that ugly but they are drop dead they can get any guy they want. ALL The Popular Cute boys are ALWAYS Hugging them and Talking to them and saying how hot they are.. Well i wanna be treated like that too.
So Does anyone have any advice how to be more prettier? Hair styles.. Make up ideas? or like outift ideas. Or like ANyway people would notice me more or like .. LIKE ME!!??
ANYTHING.. I just wanna be just like them.
Please Help it would mean so much to me you have no idea.
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Make sure you are more confident! If you are standing in the circle of your group, Make sure you are not on the outside getin the middle and speake up and talk about the things with them. Wear makeup have one of your friends help you or like your mom or somebody that will really help. Get you hair cut and let the person cutting it get something that will really help ou look better, like if you have a rounder face you might want to go sholder legth and then put some layers in it. Also if you are in a class with some of the popular girls then you might want to just go up to them and talk to them, there more friendly then you think. Also they might help you look better. Get involved in groups that they are in and also you might consider having a party and inviting them. Also they might have some issues at first etting you "in" because alot of times the two popular groups fight for that one spot! If you know what I mean. But here is a good website that helps you with things like makeup and hair and getting more attention!, [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) (( Also explore the website there are some other interesting things on there too!!))
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Be more confident. Talk a lot more. That's how you get noticed. But I don't think you really want to become of the popular girls.
There's so many girls going against another and it's too much drama and fake friends. Those guys may look hot but most likely, they care about looks. If you change yourself.. they won't like you for who you are. You don't want to be treated like that, believe me. Most guys like that are jerks and once you change your appearance. They might drop you like a hat. You want a guy that likes you for who you are and will say you are beautiful. When guys say you're hot, they usually want to get into your pants. Most guys that are popular.. are for the wrong reasons.. Like how many girls they've done it with, etc. Or because they look cute.
I guess you should experiment with looks. I don't think copying/stealing ideas from the other girls is good because they might call you fake. But if you usually wear your hair one way.. switch it up with curls or something.
Be yourself. Be happy about it.. and they will like you.
But if you change yourself, they wouldn't like you.. they would like the person you changed yourself into.. and that's not being true to yourself.
Youdon'thavetorateme.
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You don't want to be like them. Their lives are superficial and shallow.
Honestly, do you really want to be liked only for what you look like? If you're not in that group, it means that you have more to offer than just that.
Trust me on this... in the long run, you'll be better off just being yourself. Men actually prefer normal girls when they get older.
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Honestly, I think you shouldn't care what people think about you. You should be happy the way you are. I guarentee you are very pretty already. You shouldn't change your looks just to fit in! Thats a complete waste of time.
Boys who think they're cute and popular are usually jerks. I wouldn't go crazy over them. A true guy would like you the way you are, not caring how you look.
I think you should be yourself. Trust me, you'll make so many good friends! It works all the time. Let people see the real you, and if they don't like it, then they aren't your true friends. Don't think you aren't good enough, because I think you are! =]
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Hi you cant change your self for who u r. but just go up 2 the boys and talk 2 them if ur shy dont wury give it a try if that doesnt work write back. try and see what happens you might end up with all the bboys ;)
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