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Please Help!
A couple months ago I my friend I liked this guy because she wouldn't stop bugging me about who I liked so I told her him, even though I'v never really talked to him since we don't have the same classes and aren't in the same social group. But we do have a lot of the same friends. Anyways my friend got mad at me because the guy she liked asked me out, and some of the people she knows that hate me said I said yes, so she told the guy I said I liked yo get her off my back (Lets call him John)that I liked him, even though I didn't know him. I kind of liked him, I don't know why because a lot of people say he's a jerk and I'v never talked to him. But anyways he started spreading a bunch of rumors that I was stalking him. Although my friend who is also his friend said that he said he didn't say anything he just made a joke to one of his friends and they spread it around. I had like 10 people come up to me and ask me If I was stalking him which is total bull****. I don't know why I let it bug me but it does, and I still knida like him, he's not even the type I usually go for. He hangs out with the rocker/emo type and even though I have some friends that are i'm not. Why do I like him? I want to hate him after what I did but I can't, and I hate myself for not being able yo hate him. I wan't to talk to him to see If he really did say those things and maybe ven be friends with him but I don't know how. If I just walk up to him it will be awkward and emberassing. Shouls I talk to him? Should I even wan't to talk to him? It's not like he even tried to talk to me....Ever. Whwn all those rumors were going around he just told my friend to tell me he didn't say anything, which I'm still not sure whether to believe or not. I guess I'm just scared to approach him. He's sort of intimidating, not In a scary way but in a holy-shit-im-gonna-start-hypervenalting way if that makes sense at all. I don't know what to do (As you can probably tell) Should I try to talk to him or should I just let him be, the rumors have pretty much subsided because only certain groups heard them. WHen the rumors were going around though I was kind of happy because when my friend came up to me and said "'John' thinks your stocking him" I said "Tell him If he has a problem with me to talk to me and not just spread some asinine rumors" she said okay so I'm going Yay I may get to finaly talk to him but at the same time I'm thinking what a lying son of a b**** I want to kill him (Not literally. I'm not a psychopath) but I guess I just wanted to hear his voice and actually talk to him or even yell at him becaue I guess I was torn between exited and pissed off. What should I do?
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Half of that made no sense whatsoever so go read over it and pretend you're the stranger that has no clue as to what's going on.
But from what I can understand, this is the only advice I can give. Since the rumors subsided, don't let it start again in any way. You're not sure if he passed around the rumors. He might have and he might not have but you can't let that get in the way of anything right now or make assumptions of any sort.
Anywhos, I can't tell you what to do because you have to make up your own mind. Do you really want to talk to a guy that supposedly says you stalk him or do you want to let this all just pass? I mean, really, if the rumors died down, there's no reason to talk to him so it would be awkward.
If that didn't help or answer your question at all, ignore it and re-type the whole question in a more detailed/less grammatical errors way where it would be easy for me to understand because right now, it's nonsense to me...
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I really cant answer this. I dont understand exactly what your trying to ask, I cant read it. Please ask me again with proper puncation and grammar and wording, and I will do my best to asnwer you.
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