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awkward
okay so i have a wonderful boyfriend and i know he loves me so much. i have a problem though, there's a girl in my grade who he dated freshmen year for like 10 months ( we're juniors i highschool now), then theres 3 other girls who he dated but the length he dated them ranges from 2 weeks to 2 months so no big deal. my problem is i always feel i guess awkward when i'm walking with him and one of them walks by. is this normal? i know he doesn't have feelings for them anymore but with his longest relationship i know he lost his virginity to (we haven't done it) so i'm always wondering what goes through his mind when she walks past. it's difficult and i don't know how to change the way i think about this please help!
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I felt like I couldn't measure up to those other girls, and I always would wonder if since I've been dating him for less I'd just end up some number like the others. then I realized that it doesn't matter who he dated or what he went through with them, but that you are with him now and it is all about you and him at the moment, no one else. And once you realize you're the one for him and not those other girls, you'll feel much better about it!
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First off, he is with you and not them, which means your already ten times more important. He probably feels awkward when they walk by too! And the girls probably feel awkward. So relax, its normal.
-Abby
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You're never gonna know whats going through his mind unless you ask him, but before you say anything remember that he chose you. He could be with any girl but he chooses to stay with you and that alone means something, but if you really want to know whats going through his mind than ask. It's better than always wondering.
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