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I really need help!!!!
Ok, so I am 17/f and I was with this guy from 8th grade until April of last year, so for 2 and a half years we were together. When we broke up it broke my heart, we continued talking and I have a strong bond with his mother and his siblings, so we have remained in touch. Well the other night we were hanging out and he we were driving and he said to me the 3 reasons why we never lasted as a couple, he said because I play around too much, I ask too many questions and because I hit him once. So I was thinking that maybe if I stop doing those things he would take me back, because he was saying all kinds of things to me last night that he hasn't said to me since we were dating, like he kept calling me beautiful and pretty and gorgeous so I was wondering, does it sound to you like I have a chance if I change my ways a little??? Also he decided just to start telling me all kinds of things he likes, and what he doesn't like. It was very random, but he kept telling me like what he likes when girls do and what he doesn't like, what do you guys think????
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Sometimes it is only after we break up with someone that the courage to confront them and pour out our built up feelings comes flowing out. He has probably been feeling bad about the relationship for a long time and just lacked the guts to speak up. That is not your fault. No one in a relationship is perfect, but we are all responsible for our part in communicating. Learn from this experience. Maybe you could pay more attention to his or the next guy's feelings more and maybe he should have spoken up about what he likes and does not like a lot earlier. What a bummer that we waste so much time because we don't communicate with one another. You have a chance to change...you always will no matter what, but don't take on all the blame. He needs to learn to stand up for himself, too and not just quietly build up resentments and then blame you! I would have you think about if YOU really want HIM back...because unless he is willing to meet you half-way by being more open and honest about what he wants at the moment, then what is the point?
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Hi, what i suggest is that if your boyfreind genually wants to get back together with you then he will make the first move. But i think you should not change yourself for anyone because if your bf loved you he would not want you to change, so maybe if you do want to change them thingsd like hitting him, you could but i suggest you don't change yourself for anyone because one day someone will love you the way you are.
hope i helped
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this is a strange situation. it sounds like he is telling u a lot of information so yeah i think he likes you again. he just wants it to be differnent this time. ask him online if he likes u again. then see wat happens.
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i think he wants to start his realationship over. you know ive you a clean fresh start and this time communicate what he likes and doesn't like
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