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how do u tell?
so, there is this person, she's actually a teacher at my school. A lot of people think she's a lesbian(she's only 22 also) but me and my friends think that there is something going on between her and another teacher at my school (Man). so i'm wondering, how do you tell if a person is a lesbian? and what are some signs that people are having an affair. it's also a boarding school and they both live there.....
i just want people's opinions, my school is kind of boring and not much happens so, my friends and I are trying to investigate :)
this is why people think she's a lesbian:
she is really athletic, coaches field hocket and softball
dresses ungirly- like button up shirts, sweaters, slacks and jeans- nothing girly
always wears her hair in a ponytail-never down
really competitive and kind of a tough attitude
This is why we think she is having an affair with my science teacher
they sit together a lot, interact a lot
walk places together
his wife is out of town for a month, and we have only noticed them hanging out since she has been gone
people have said they talked about "watching movies" at each others apartments or something like that
once, she was wearing eyeliner and my friend was like "why are you wearing eyeliner?" like teasing her, because she doesn't usually wear makeup, and then my science teacher came in and my friend was like "wear are you going" and he said "nowhere you would want to go" (which seems very suspicious) and then the woman said "we're just going to the gym to play basketball"
They just seem sort of, i dunno, together
anyways i know this is long, but it's kinda funny, and i'm just wonderign what other people would think about this??
hmmmm.....very suspicious
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Ok, I also would have to agree that you shouldn't go snooping into someone else's business, especially a teacher's. But I'm also a victim of the boredom it takes to speculate things like this so i know what you mean.
As for the female teacher, the way she dresses could tell you if she is a lesbian, but not always. Some people don't dress to impress, they dress for comfort. There are a lot of straight girls who would love to dress this way if they had the chance to not worry about guys, other people judging them, etc. For some people though, they can just tell things like this, some people refer to it as having "gay-dar". But yea, there is no certain way to tell, you'd just have to know for yourself.
And for the affair, again, it's just one of those things you know. You'd normally have to feel a connection or chemistry between them. And the watching movies thing, just a heads up, you can't always believe what you hear. They could also just be friends, it may sound quite stupid to you, but it is a possibility. They have personal lives like everyone else, they have friends, and even enemies.
Hope I helped a bit.
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HAHAH
dude thats what i thought in 7th grade
but yeah
i think she probably is bi
cuz she might be with that guy
damn you should like make a school article about this
ahahaha
I'D BUY IT
LOL
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haha there is no way to tell if she is or not...there is one teacher at my school our friends were CONVINCED was then one day her husband came to class and she annonced she was pregnant haha
and they may be having an affiar...who knows.
there's been a rumor at my school since last year this one english teacher and a science teacher are...no one knows for sure...
but everyone talks about it...
as for the other responces; ya i guess it's kinda rude but i dont think it's as big a deal as they're making it
it's not like you are digging through their trash or calling the guys wife...
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Ok...I agree that you shouldn't be butting into your teacher's life. I doubt they would be together anywyas since she looks like a "lesbian" and what if they heard you talking about them??? It would hurt their feelings if they aren't together and if you start rumors like that it could get them fired because he is married. Maybe he is hanging out with her because she reminds him of his wife and he misses his wife? You never know anyone else's situation so you shouldn't judge them. This is not a way for you and your friends to entertain yourselves! It is something serious that has NOTHING to do with yall so why do you care? Yeah...that's all I have to say :D
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I am using every ounce of self-control I have to not use some very nasty words as I try to explain to you why this IS NOT AN OKAY WAY TO ENTERTAIN YOURSELVES.
I don’t care how bored you are. I don’t care if you live in a series of rooms all painted white with no windows and absolutely nothing more interesting then the sex lives of your teachers to talk about. Nothing can make the game you are playing a good one.
It’s abusive and it’s cruel of you to sit around and speculate about these adult’s lives.
Has it occurred to you, even for a moment, how harmful what you are doing could be? Not just because it’s none of your business and not just because there is likely nothing inappropriate going on, but because you discussing these things, starting and fueling these rumors could lead to intense emotional pain for both of these people? They could loose their jobs if someone takes your silly comments seriously. They could loose their livelihood, the respect of their peers and have their personal lives fall to pieces. All because a bunch of girls were bored.
You will be faced with this dilemma often in your life and I promise you will not just be a better person, you will be a better liked and more respected person if you stop this gossip mongering. How would you feel if your teachers or fellow students put this much energy into dissecting your every move? Only to come up with the conclusion you were an adulteress? You would be pissed off! You would be hurt! You would feel betrayed and violated!
This game you are playing is a really bad way to treat people. It will not win you friends. It will make you enemies. It will also make people think of you as irresponsible with your words and make them distrustful of you.
So be mature about it and butt out. If you have nothing decent to say about someone else, keep your mouth shut.
Watch soap operas if you need to talk about other people’s sex lives.
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