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my gf thinks i like her more then i do...
when i first told my girlfriend i loved her, i really thought i did, but now as the days are passing by shes just getting too clingy and way too emotional, shell call me crying, saying how much she loves me and in the beginning i was thinking "aww how cute", but now i just feel bad, and irratated... whats a good way to break up with her without her going crazy and shit?
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I know some one who is in the same situation, and he isn't really doing much about it so props to you for actually doing something! It's not a good thing to be pretending you really like this girl if you don't. Also, I've been on the other end where one of my friends got their heart broken becuase their boyfriend just sort of lost interest in them. The best way to break it to her is in person, I know it sounds hard and you might be thinking it would be just as good on the phone, but really, it would be better that way. Girls like it better when a guy has the courage to do that. Also that way you can really get your point across (without her hanging up the phone), and you can talk about it with her. Do it calmly and sweetly, don't beat around the bush, but don't be too blunt. It does sound complicated, but to break it down you basically have to tell her that she's a great girl and you would like to be friends, but it just isn't gonna work out being boyfriend and girlfriend. BEST OF LUCK:) hope I helped!
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tell her the nicest way possible. being a girl, getting dumped is not what they want to hear. the other columnist is right. you should not say 'i love you' to someone unless you truly mean it. tell her that you still care a lot about her, but too much is going on & you want to be friends but let her know you'll still be there for her. she probably won't be as upset if you do that. just talk to her about it but make sure you know you want to break up with her for sure.
-hope that helped!&hearts
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You should only tell someone you love them if you really mean it. It's not a word to throw around like it's a frisbee. Next time, be more careful with it. Anyways, tell her that things are getting too overwhelming, and you'd like to be just friends.
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