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does she like me? ( long )
my friend, ( 18/f ) is a lesbian. me, ( 15/f )i am straight. she went out with my sister but they both cheated on each other. i talk to my lesbian friend alot of my sister.thats basically all we talk about but thats fine. my friend is still in love with her and all. but shes always calling me and talking to me about her problems and everything. i think mabye she likes me. how do i tell. she said there are only a few people she will ever listen too and im one of them. idk mabye were just good friends but how am i supposed to know if she likes me?
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This is what friends do - talk to each other about their problems, ask for advice, listen to each other. It doesn't matter what their sexuality is.
If your friend is still in love with your sister, this adds an extra element of complication because by staying in close contact with you, she's sort of staying in the loop your sister is in.
If you are feeling unsure of her feelings, it sounds as if you guys are close enough that you could just ask her. I really think it sounds as if you're just good friends - after all, the way to come on to someone usually doesn't involve talking about how much you love someone else.
I wish you the best.
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Well if you continue talking to your lesbian friend, she might get the idea that you have feelings for her. The best way to avoid her from getting near you is to give her a single, SOLID advice that she can live on and take it from there, because you can't keep saying the same thing to her to make her feel better for only a short period of time. Or if you prefer to be straight forward with her without question, you can bluntly ask her "Do you have feelings for me?" The question might scare her but you can always clarify that you just want to make sure so things won't be awkward. Hope things work out. <3
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I suppose she looks up to you to listen to everything she goes through as(a Friend)
She can trust you an you listen to her and she feels she can trust you with her secrets founding out if she does like you is simply her actions towards you..
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cant really tell unless she makes a move and says she loves you in many ways.
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