Probably the longest question ever :(, thanks so much if you
Question Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 4:49 am
Background:-
My party on Saturday. 40 people. All my good friends were allowed to bring people as long as they were responsible for them (this was very clear).
Aime: My friend
Jane: My friend
Ashley: Known her since June. Is at school but came to visit. Brought Mary.
Aaron: Friends with all of us for a year or two. Has been in California since September. Mom is in Seattle and knows that he is here. Dad and stepmom don’t know (he hates them). Has been staying with a friend. He claims to be a thug. Doesn’t have any friends left in town, don’t know why. Brought Katie.
Story at 1:00 AM:-
Aaron: Mary took Jane’s beer from the fridge so he made Mary give him five dollars. Mary was crying. Ashley came up to him raging drunk and flipped. Ashley got into a fight with Katie and Aaron pushed her a little to get her to back off. She was so drunk that she fell over.
Ashley: Aaron took money from Mary by force so she asked him to give it back. Aaron got violent and pushed her. She fell, hit her head and was unconscious.
Everyone else: Not sure but they heard an argument and saw Aaron push Ashley and she passed out. Asked him to leave.
1:15 AM:
I came down and heard what happened. I cut through the forest to find them. I started yelling at Aaron and telling him he was in trouble. I told him to call Ashley and apologize. He said no because Katie was his friend and he brought her to the party so he had to protect her. Katie kept cutting in and saying it wasn’t his fault and stuff. She then named her cousin Justin who who I had heard of vaguely and I informed her that I was not impressed. She told me that she could protect herself and she could hit me if she wanted. I ignored her for the most part but I told her that she should try … and she did. She tackled me to the ground and I was pulling at her hair but she was mostly hitting me and kicking me till I got a nose bleed. Aaron pulled us apart. He told her to run. I dragged him back to my house with me and he tried to take his shirt off to soak up my blood but I refused it.
We got back and Aimie was on the phone talking to Aaron’s stepmom so he peaced it.
3:00:
Aaron’s stepmom and Ashley’s mom showed up at my house. Ashley’s mom took Ashley and left. So did everyone else. Next morning we found Ashley’s wallet empty (it contained credit cards and her Social Security Card) on the side of the road where we fought. Aaron left to California but told a mutual friend that I had started the fight by mouthing off to Katie, then Ashley had come outside to hit Katie and then he pushed her.
So… I have my blood soaked clothes and his blood soaked t-shirt with Katie’s hair on it too (from where I yanked it out) in my bathroom. Either one of them could have taken the wallet. I’m not sure whether I want revenge, I don’t really care. We just need Ashley’s ID back. We found out where Katie lives and her home number.
a) What should we do now?
b) My face has lots of scrapes, how can I prevent them from turning into scars?
Additional info, added Tuesday February 20 2007, 7:06 am: c) How do you think I handled the situation? What would you have done?. Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Injuries? Depressed_Poet answered Tuesday February 20 2007, 8:39 am: A)Call the police, & tell them the whole story about everything especially the part about the ID, SSN (Social Security Number, which by the way... is the worst thing to carry around with you because if someone else finds that they can wipe out EVERYTHING, credit cards, previous accounts, saved information ANYWHERE, they could even get into your bank account!) & credit cards. They will help you investigate the situation further obviously. You can't really do much on your own & it's better to have someone who is trained for this to help you out! =]
B)Most likely they will heal naturally but to be extra safe, put lotion on it every night, just a basic moisturizer for scratches, damaged skin, or dry skin. Or apply it every morning.
And..
C)There really wasn't much else to do in your situation, especially when your adrenaline is rushing & you don't have time to think for the best logical answer or agenda. And as for the revenge, I advise you not to, it will just come back & hit you harder. Now, what I'm about to tell you can tell you A LOT about what person may have taken those things.
Forensics-here's one way of forensic NOBODY else knows about! I'm pretty sure, anyway.
Handwriting. Yep, strange I know. But if you just got a sample of each one of their handwriting & gave it to an expert, they can tell you whether or not they're a criminal. It's crazy, but I know about this because my mom does it for a living. And no matter how much you disguise your handwriting, you still can tell because of the strokes in your writing. And that's impossible to change!
Good luck. [ Depressed_Poet's advice column | Ask Depressed_Poet A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday February 20 2007, 7:29 am: Well, If I was you, I d definatelly call the police. This people aint your friends and you should not feel sorry for them.
Once, a "friend" of mine was searching though my stuff and stole 900 dollars. I had a small party at the time with about 14 guests. I called the police and found him.
Thugs dont hit wimen by the way. And thugs dont fight over 5 dollars. And Aaron is a really gay name for a thug, reminds me of Aaron Karter.
If you call the cops, they will open a file for this guys, Aaron and his girl. Nothing will happen against them unless you or someone involved decides to do so. In case something happens again in the future you can use this foldier. Cops will also take pictures of your scars and stuff. If you were a man, I d tell you not do anything cause boys fight all the time and its ok. But when a girl gets attacked, thats a different story. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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