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friends I want to make friends but it seems like just talking to someone is not the way. I am lonely and I don't want to not have any friends. I think it's because of how I look.
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the first thing that you have to do is to overcome how you think you look. Try something new that will get you more comfortable for being yourself. I've learned that you can't just sit around looking hopeless for people to come up to you and say hey want to hang out? you need to look confident, but be yourself also. It'll be hard but the worst thing for you to do is to have everyone else think that you're something that you're really not. But don't throw yourself at them, make them notice you, but not in a bad or dangerous way. Just be confident and try to be pleasant and happy. Good luck with everything, hope this helped. ]
If a person is going to base having a friendship with you on how you look, then they aren't going to be a real friend anyhow.
Maybe you are looking in all the wrong places for a friend? That seems to be the case if you are concerned you can't make a friend based on your appearance. Try a different crowd of people.
Talking and getting to know some one are the only real ways to make friends. ]
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