I was just watching the new episode of the hills and heidi gives spencer a second chance to proove himself and to build a trust. shes been going out with him for more than a few months..well
ive been going with my boyfriend for 5 months and hes been flirting with my ex best friend (from middle school) for about 2 months and me and her just became friends again, so she decided to tell me that hes a scum bag. so then i caught him flirting with this girl in school whos know for being 'easy'. and he denies he said anything sexual, but she even told me he was saying that he wants to see her on girls gone wild and for her to strip for him. I really really love him, but watching the hills made me see me and heidi are in the same prediciment, *except her boyfriend you can tell is a scumbag, my boyfriend is really nice...* but she gave him a second chance, but i want to know, should i give him a second chance. we've been not together for 2 weeks, and he really wants to get back with me, espiecally before feb. vacation...Should i give him another chance, or should i go on and find another boyfriend, maybe not as nice or cute, but one that doesnt flirt with others...I'm sooo confused!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxSAANxx answered Monday February 12 2007, 6:00 pm: I think you should find somebody else it is so not worth it. He was going out with you and flirting with you ex-best friend and other girls, you don't know how manyother ones there is. This guy sounds like a player, he's not worth your friendship with your friend. Don't take him back, if you let him walk all over you then he's going to continue doing it and come back to you when the time is right with him. Spend your feb. vacay. with your friends... you never know you could find someone new.
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christina answered Monday February 12 2007, 5:47 pm: I wouldn't stay with him. He broke your heart when you found out about him flirting with other girls & the things he's said to them. So if he's done it before, there's a high chance he'll do it again. You can't trust him. Find someone you trust, you like & someone that'll treat you like a princess. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
xsilentxwhispersx answered Monday February 12 2007, 5:21 pm: deff. dont stay with him. he will break your heart. hes done it once, what will stop him from doing it again. I watch the hills, and i HATE spencer, hate him... getting back together with him was the worst mistake, so if you want to look foolish like she does,than fine do it, but if you want to make a good decision, than dump him...
my theory: 1 person says hes a cheater/scumbag than he might be, a little yellow warning flag. 2 people do, than thats a red flag, dont get with him anymore. Probably his ex girlfriends would say the same. [ xsilentxwhispersx's advice column | Ask xsilentxwhispersx A Question ]
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