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should i tell him my feeling?
I've been dating this guy for 3 months. The first day I met him, I already knew he just broke up with his ex. I don't think I was that interested in the beginning, but he somehow grows on me.
The other night, he was in a bad mood and all the sudden telling he's not over the ex yet. I think back to my head, I knew that the whole time when we are dating. (come on, who can honestly to say they get over the ex in a month?) However, my feeling still hurts, hurts even more than I thought would be.
I want to tell him how I feel, but if I did, I know I would never talk to him again. This will be over. (which I don't want to.......)
What should I do?
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I would tell him how you feel regarding him loving his Ex still. it isnt fair for you to be lead on by him. You might be thinking that the relationship is going to go far but he might think that hes just with you to cope with the pain. He might not get over her for a while, and you dont have to deal with him. He is obviously not over her, and you cant love someone else and still be in a relationship, because as your relationship progresses,maybe for a year, what if he still lovesher and she wants to get back with him, he might end things with you to get back with her. that would be harder to do then breaking it off now. Stay freinds with him and maybe one day, he might like you more than his ex..
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Tell him that if he still has feelings for her, then it's not fair to you that he's with you. He should've gotten with you when he was over here completely. Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel & risk your relationship. Stay friends. As soon as he's over her, he might just get back with you.
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