Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


this is getting really serious


Question Posted Thursday February 8 2007, 8:41 pm

im really body concious and sometimes it gets to the point where i hurt|harm myself. i used to cut and i was annerexic. i am no longer neither but today my boyfriend asked for nude pics. and im 13 but usually i would be like YEAH BRB I NEED TO TAKE SOME. but lately ive just been more depressed than usual. i dont eat much anymore. ive been wanting to cut i even attempted to cut. i havent wanted to kill myself though. i just dont know whats wrong with me. i dont want my mom or dad to know. and i dont want physcological help anymore either. nothing online or in person. i made up a random excuse not to. but its jsut that i can find more flaws in me than good things. i dont even think i do have good things. my question is. what can i do?

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health?


NinjaNeer answered Friday February 9 2007, 5:52 pm:
Two things;

Psychological help does work. I battled an eating disorder between the ages of 10 and 15, and came out just fine. You just need to put the effort into it. A psychiatrist won't magically make all your problems go away, but they can help you to decide how to fix them.

Another, as a side note... for your boyfriend's sake, don't give him nude pictures of yourself. It's illegal, even if you're the one sending it. He could be charged with possession of child pornography.

[ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question
]




Brandi_S answered Friday February 9 2007, 8:19 am:
You need psychological help, weather you want it or not. I hope that you decide to want it soon before you find yourself trapped back in old habits.

[ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question
]



Sabine answered Thursday February 8 2007, 10:51 pm:
I know this is not what you want to hear. Sorry. You NEED psychological help, even though you don't want it. You will have to get it eventually and it may as well be now, outpatient, rather than later, when you've dropped 20 lb and your parents find cutting scars and have you hospitalized. Please take care of yourself and ask for the help you need.

Sabine

[ Sabine's advice column | Ask Sabine A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: flirty kid?
Next Question >>> sarcasm.

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker