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guy situation
this guy that i like, he's really nice and all, but i dont understand him. ive tried starting convos with him but they never work out or turn out to be a few sentences. im friends with his friends and vice versa, but we always end up talking indirectly. here's an example. we would be in a small group at school. i would say something about 1 of the guys were talking to & he would reply back talking to that guy. that probably doesnt make much sense. it would go like this- me:heyy remember when this happened him:yeah dude [to the other guy] that was really funny. never directly talking to me if that makes sense?? anyway, even if i am talking he wont join in the convo and just watches me talk. does he really not like me or something? also if im sitting near him in groups, he'll automatically just move. i never did anything to him & everyone thinks im a pretty nice person and really funny. he doesnt act like this towards anyone else that i noticed. yes he might be shy but it seems different. if something is funny he'll laugh about it in groups and if i laugh he'll just stop. what did i do?! the only somewhat communication we'd have is if hes watching me talk to someone else. any ideas??
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I think you should try to talk to him when he's by himself. If you are both within a group, then it makes it easier for him to talk to other people instead of you - if he's alone then you can't.
As for whether or not he likes you...tough to tell. Try asking your friends or his friends to see if they have heard him say anything about you. I don't think there would be anything wrong with trying to confront him and being straightforward about it by saying that you like him. Weird? Not as much as you think, because he might feel the same way. If he doesn't like you back, then trying to chase after him might get messy. Hope that helped and good luck.
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well, i have one, he may just be too nervous to talk to you directly so he retreats back to the safety of his friends. or becuase he's nervous he may be uncomfortable to sit near you. if this is the case then you need to show him that he can be comfortable around you, maybe when he responds to a friend instead of you, butt in with a comment like, when he says dude that was so funny, be like yeah i thought so too. make it normal and natural to talk to him and he'll warm up to you
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