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oh boy, a friend im crushin on is seeing sum1 else
Ive got a friend, shes a girl, we were introduced by a mutual friend and pretty much hit things off right away, although at the time we were both interested in other ppl, we still got close and shared the feelings we had for eachother, but in the end decided that because of the 2 year age gap and because she lives so far away that we wouldnt date, unfortunitly the relationship i had didnt work out (supposedly because i was still "hung up" on this other girl). but fortunitly for my friend her relationship took off, and is now happy...i believe she knows that im still into her, even if shes no longer onto me, but would it be good of me as a friend to make it clear to her that i still have these feelings? or remain heartbroken over the fact that i cant have her?
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i fell in love with a guy while i was still dating some one else..those feelings didnt fade even though i was so happy with the current guy..eventually i realized i wanted to give it a shot with the other guy and i broke up with my boyfriend. it worked out great. the guy kinda helped it along though by talking to me and making it known that he still had feelings for me. so my answer to this is yes..tell her you have feelings for her and be there for her until shes ready for a relationship with you. if you feel that shes worth the wait then do it!
i hope this helped :)
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I would tell her how you feel. If you admit to her that and she turns you down, then you know you can't have her and I would give up. But try one more time, and see what happens. Let me know :)
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