Question Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 10:55 pm
My friend Daniela is not a saver and is very clean and neat. Her mother even tells friends and relatives; I have one daughter named Joanne that saves and one daughter named DANIELA that does NOT save. Last month Daniela brought home from work a menorah that is gorgeous and two months ago she brought home from work a jewelry box. HERE IS THE STORY: OK Yesterday, Daniela came home with a cover from a box of chocolate that really is a work of art. Daniela is going to frame it. So when Daniela came home last night she showed her mother the cover and her mother said; wow that is gorgeous; Her mother and she spoke about the cover and her mother said; Your coworkers are going to think you are a pack rat; Daniela said; why are you saying that; Her mother replied; because of the other times you brought things home; This bothered Daniela because Daniela is not a saver and neat. Daniela asked her friends; is my mom saying that she thinks I am a saver and a hoarder; HER friends said; No she is not saying that at all; MY QUESTION: DO you agree with Danielas friends?
Additional info, added Sunday February 4 2007, 7:27 pm: READ BELOW AS WELL:
AND I AM ADDING THAT DANIELA CONFRONTED HER MOTHER THE NEXT DAY AND SAID; MOM I AM NOT A PACK RAT; AND HER MOTHER SAID; TO ME A PACK RAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU ARE HOARDER OR SLOPPY; IT JUST MEANS YOU WANT WHAT NO ONE ELSE WANTS.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? christina answered Sunday February 4 2007, 10:59 am: These questions are so rediculous. Take up ping pong or something. Seriously.
Brandi_S answered Saturday February 3 2007, 11:15 pm: First question: No, I don't agree with the friends on this one. Her mother said others will think she is a pack rat. That means she is saying that Daniela is a saver.
Second question: Yes, I do agree with her friends. You always ask questions that some one is reading into the remarks of others. Needlessly, of course.
She shouldn't worry about or even care what others think of her, weather about being a pack rat, too thin, too fat, too drawn, too whatever. Daniela doesn't seem to think she is a pack rat, so why should the opinion of others matter on the subject? [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
xY0M0MMAx answered Saturday February 3 2007, 11:06 pm: does it honestly matter?
i mean, come ON. this question is completely pointless.
just like my "answer."
i'm sorry, but i needed to say something about this cause it was gettng annoying.
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