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I'm friends with a bitch
I helped this girl friend get into the institution I'm working for. She was a big hit as an academic coordinator, but success went into her head. She's spreading rumors about the owner ( who is a well respected family man) having fantasies about her. She is so full of herself that all the guys in the office thinks she's an easy lay. She's also bragging that back in college, all the guys I wanted to date likes her instead of me?!? I am a teacher and I worked hard to earn the respect of my colleagues and my students, but I'm tired of being linked to her promiscuity's. Is there a way I can get out of this monster I created?
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I have a feeling the problem here will inevitably resolve itself without anyone saying a word about it. Sure enough, all the talking and gossiping will come to your boss's attention and he will have her disciplined if she's a decent teacher and on probation unless she's really, really crossed the line here.
If she ever brought up embarassing sexual detail abouts etc then she will be gone for sure. I hate to say it but for the protection of your own job you ought to speak to your superior or file a report on her. Why? you recommended her for the role. Your boss might wonder why and if you both have "issues" that he ought to fire you over even if you've done nothing.
You need to protect yourself here and put a hell of a lot of distance between you and only be around her in a situation where you are working. Do not socialize with her or have her in your life. If she invites herself over univited tell her you were about to go out.
I would have nothing to do with her period as I think she's got some mental issue here as most people are able to see this is inappropriate behavior and cause for termination.
File the report immediately because it's an anonymous process because quite frankly, the guys or anyone else who heard her could essentially file too so she wouldn't know. Go about your business and don't mention this to co-workers.
Something as i said isn't right with her mentally at this time as most people know not to behave like this. The girl needs help. She's got infinitely more than you have. Time will take care of all of this. But yes, do file your report so you are protected.
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I would file a complaint against her to your authority. She has no business spreading rumors about you or anyone else at work. She needs to realize one way or another that when she is in a professional environment, she needs to act like it.
I'm sure that if the owner knew of her rumors about him, she wouldn't have a job very long. That's just the breaks of the game when you can't learn to keep your mouth shut.
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Ignore her or confront her. If she denies everything, then ignore it. But honestly, I would report her to the owner. Since he owns the institution, he might be the only one who can fire her. Success is good, but to let it get to your head for no reason, that's bad. Get her fired so you can be happy again. =)
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