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Liking a Guy for way too long
Im 15 and a female..a freshman in highschool of that helpss anywayss
so theres this guy that i have liked since the beggining of the year. He is my best friend ( who is a guy) best friends. So we tend to be at the same place at the same time. I really like him but the one time i tried to tell him everything got out of hand...i want to tell him and it seems like he is somewhat into me but hes really bad at showing his feelings. What should i do? keep it a secret? forget about him and move on? or what? PLEASE HELP ME!
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I say yu invite him to hang out at your house or something just you two.. Maybe watch a movie lights out And stuff. Either tell him right there "I know we are good friends but i sort of like you as more" and see what he says or when he goes to leave give him a hug goodbye and wisper in his ear "i like you" Or if that seems to much just start hanging out more just you to and maybe goof around and gut cuddly feely that sort of thing.
You should never hide yur feelings atleast not for ever and if things dont work out i`m sure yu guys can keep being friends and just move on and find a different guy. Life goes on remember that. yu sound like a sweet girl i think you can get a good guy ;)
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First of all, how often do you think about him? Are you always thinking about him? Is it like he's driving you crazy? But it's kind of like you don't mind it? If that's true, then you've got to tell him. When you go to talk to him, take deep breaths. Talk about one thing at a time, let the conversation simmer, and when it comes to a boil, kind of subtley squeeze it into the conversation. Give him some signs that you like him, body language is a good type of hint to give him.
If he's bad at showing his feelings, he's probably really shy. That could be a good thing though! It could mean that he's really into you, he's just too nervous about getting rejected. Don't keep it a secret, don't forget about him and move on. If you really like him, take a chance, a risk, go for it! Chances like this don't come around so often for a lot of people. Take it while you've got it.
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I say, tell him. if he doesn't like you back, then try not to lose any part of the friendship by making things awkward. you only live life once, so go for it! i wish you the best of luck!
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