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Ok so theres this boy named Josh.I loved him and Im the same age as him, we were born on the same day same year{which is just something that I like}I only talk to him online and yes i know him in person we go to the same school same grade but in person at school with all his friends he treats me like crap, but were like 1 on the computer and I just dont get it.I dont want to love him anymore but I cant talk to him about it cause then I would be selface... January 21st his sister died of cancer and he came to me for help and I know what he's going through cause my uncle died of cancer too.But i cant tell him stop being nice to me I need to stop loving you because Ive tried and he's told me he has more on his mind then who likes him and I felt hrrible afterwards but anyway.....Rachel my friend also likes him and I called her every name in the book, she asked him out last weekend and he said "no" and he told me he said no and i told him I loved him and i think he took it as a joke but i ment it literally.So im making fun of rachel yelling at her when josh is like stop yelling at my girlfriend. and i freeze. I ran outa the room crying and josh fallowed me out and rachel just stayed there in his living room. I sat on his bed and couldnt stop crying when he kissed me! I told him i wanted to go home because she was rude and then he lad me on the bed and kissed me on the lips.... i sat right up and was like i thought she was your girlfriend how can you say that and just kiss me.. {not saying i didnt like it}. and he's like well she's not but I miss my sister and Im like so thats your excuse? the door was closed so rachel has no idea what happened and were friends but they are going out and josh is still rude to me in school but outside he acts like were going out but you can tell theres pitty in his eyes. then sunday everyones together chilling when I say im going to the bathroom and Josh fallows me out and everyone makes a -o0o0o0o- sound and rachel wasnt there so she STILL doesnt kno. I said I really did have to go to the bathroom and he was like well lets go to my bedroom and kiss and I flipped!! I was like so you can kiss me alone but in public you dont know me and left the holl party! its not really a question but im just o confused
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um i know u reallylike him but you should 4 get about him if he treats u like crap then he doesn't really like you he just likes using you set him straight that he either like youor he doesn't
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I'm sorry you're going through this. You need to have boundaries. No matter that his sister died. No matter what's going on, you deserve to be treated with respect. I'm not saying you need to stop liking him, but I am saying you need to pull away from the situation until Josh makes up his mind who he likes. And it has to be in *all* circles. Real relationships don't change depending on who's there. If he really likes you, he needs to have the courage to stand up in front of anyone and say so. Otherwise, he's getting what he wants from you and he's too chicken to be an individual with his own opinion while you're at school. I say you need to just get away from this all - including Rachel - until everyone makes up their minds about what they want.
Sabine
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he's sweet, but just scared. give him a chance! this rachel girl, she's rudee! she asked out the guy you like?! STAY with josh, kiss him, etc. it'll work out!
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