okay so my crush whatever you wanna call it well best friend since 1 st grade friend
i told him i liked him and he said he likes me to alot...
so i said i like you you like me does this mean anything?
and he said "taylor... im really sorry i like you alot probably more then you like me but i have a girlfriend an i dont want to leaveher... im sorry"
and i said its okay an i left
well we are still friends he said he thought i looked pretty today
but i wanna be his girlfriend his only girl but it just hurts how he feels the same way but wants to be with another girl
what should i do
an dont say "move on" because i cant okay
i've known him since 1st grade an liked him since fourth an i cant just forget about someone like that
from,
extremely confused girl
FlipShawtii answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 10:09 pm: wow, i'll give u my best advice and hopefully it would be good enough for you .. STAY STRONG, don't give up on him, i have a gut feeling you'll eventually end up together. Just be patient which i know will kill you inside but sweetie i think that may be the only thing to do in your situation. I know you wanna be with him and be the only girl in his life and it will be hard to see him with someone else but keep in touch with him alright and yes definetly stay strong.
Kate032 answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 10:04 pm: Alright. There really isn't anything you can do other than talk to him. Tell him that he's messing with your emotions and you're confused. Say that if he really likes you then he would do something about it. He needs to know that he can't go on with one girlfriend and one girl who he likes a lot, telling her how pretty she is, etc. This will just mess up everyones emotions.
You need to let him know that if he truly likes you he would end it with this girl. Most importantly, you can't let him think that he can keep messing with your head. Tell him that its now or never. This way, if he acts on it, you'll know that he really cares.
Chavez answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 10:03 pm: omg! i know exactly what your going through...i liked this guy a lot but he had a girlfriend and he said the exact same thing! anyway...well let me just tell you straight out. he's not with her anymore. we're together :) so im saying to you, hang in there, im sure he'll realize youre the one for him, or maybe you might realize that he's not right for you...as a boyfriend that is. however, for now dont do anything, just chill with him. dont talk bad about his girlfriend either-that might just kill his outlook on you :( dont kiss him or do anything of the sort while he's with his girlfriend. wait til he's free. oh and (sorry this might be a lot to do but its worth it) give him some time to be single again before you two get together, if you do. it helps him to appreciate you more and forget about his ex. also if you hook up right away, he might start to compare you to his ex and that's not good. like i said this is a lot, but if you really like him, im sure it'll work out. [ Chavez's advice column | Ask Chavez A Question ]
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