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Precautions.
14/f.
My boyfriend is 16/m.
Ok; my boyfriend and I have talked it over, and we are ready to have sex. I don't want to go into too many details, because that's not what this question is asking. I was wondering what pre-cautions we could take to not get me pregnate.[sp?] Like, if he gets off, should we change the condom? It's both our first time and I am very nervous. He dosen't seem to be, but I was just wondering.
p.s. Birth control isn't an option.
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I'm surprised with the last answer you got! Definitely DO NOT do the 'pull out' method! You can still get pregnant!!
If you want to be safest then USE A CONDOM.
Good luck and be safe.
-Katie
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Well one thing would be just not to have sex, but that's probably not what you want to hear lol, you could have him pull out when he thinks he's going to cum so when he does cum he cums in the condom and not in you.
-Beanie
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If birth control isn't an option, then sex shouldn't be either. Unless.. you have been medically proven to not be able to take it, there should be no reason you cannot get on it. If you can't have your parents take you to the doctor, then have your boyfriend or a friend take you to the local clinic to get put on birth control. Or even take a bus. Would you rather make some kind of effort to get on birth control or would you rather spend the next 18 years of your life taking care of a kid & NOT being able to have the education to spell the word "pregnant?" My advice to you: don't have sex until you are more mature & educated. You say you're ready to have sex & maybe you think you are. But if you can't protect yourself, then you are not ready.
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I would definately replace the condom if your still going to be going at it after he ejaculates. However my advice to you is to go to your local drugstore and pick up the morning after pill. I know in California its a legal Over the Counter drug and it has an incredible success rate. Use of the morning after pill is probably about 98-99% effective but the condom is definately advised
I apologize i was on my way to work when i answered this question which i answered entirely to hastily. I was not suggesting The morning after pill as a regular use thing. Nor was i suggesting to not use a condom. I was suggesting that it is a good thing to have if something goes wrong ie condom breaks. slips off. I believe that the only true form of birth control is abstinance but im sure thats not what you want to hear right now. Use of a condom and hormonal birth control is your best bet. clinics such as plannedparenthood can help you with that without letting your parents know. Once again i would like to apologize for my hasty answer that was not well written and definatlely did not portray the point i was trying to make
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Dont do it. you cant even spell pregnant. your 14 and just no, im pretty sure he is going to use you for sexual needs. please please please please do not do it. and if you go ahead and do it without thinking about the aftermass use a condom, and if its too big wait and get another one that fits. but i suggest for your future to NOT do it. please.
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