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female heartbreaker.


Question Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 6:50 pm

long story short -

i spoke to this guy on friday and spoke to him for a whole week. we made out on saturday (last night) he doesnt want a relationship, but i do. i'm sick and tired of hearing about guys breaking girl's hearts. how can i draw him into me? and play hard to get, but not too hard because i already tried that and it's sooo hard, i can't draw away from him that much without making him think i'm not interested (which might him go away and i don't want that) i know the age difference is a lot, but i know this can work. it's possible. i know it. i'm 14/f, he just turned 17. come on guys don't doubt me! any tips at all?
i really liked how those 4 girls in just tucker must die broke his heart. but i can't do the things they did, because this is a different case. please help!


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vivalajam0x answered Sunday January 28 2007, 7:52 pm:
Hey,

Well basically, I think you want to play hard to get so you can be in a relationship with this kid..?

If he doesn't want a decision, unfortunately, you cannot change it. It's his decision. :(

I'm not doubting that this can work due to the age difference, I'm doubting it because he doesn't want a relationship.

Maybe just Friends with benefits?

You'll find someone, don't worry, you're only 14!

Hope I helped, Good luck!

-Jam

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BlackBatman answered Sunday January 28 2007, 7:19 pm:
I can understand the fact that you'd like to get revenge for him leading you on, but the best revenge is to live good. Besides, if you've only spoken to him for one week then you shouldn't be that upset about this whole thing. My advice is to just forget the whole revenge thing and move on.

-BlackBatman-

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Brandi_S answered Sunday January 28 2007, 7:17 pm:
My question is this- why on earth would you want to deliberately break some one's heart? (Maybe I misunderstood you.) You wouldn't want to feel the pain of heartbreak, why wish to inflict it on somebody else? That's just ruthless.

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holahayley56 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 7:15 pm:
Of course he doesn't want a girlfriend. No one in highschool is usually into serious relationships.. espically guys. Atleast where I live. That is an age difference, & my old brother, whos 17. [i'm fourteen] he would never wanna date one of my friends. he thinks there still imature. so, ehh i'd forget him.

but, i guess to play hard to get.. what I do, is im just not all over him. i like, smile & like twist my hair & stuff, but i'm not all over someone.

i hope that helped a little.

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