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new best friend
I wanted to show my best friend how much i loved her so i wrote her a short poem instead of sending it to her e-mail i send it to these girl i just met at church.Her reply was so touching.She said things my own best friend hasnt told me yet.I feel more connected to her then i do to my best friend and it isnt just cuz her reply.Unlike my best friend she actually makes me feel loved.This has left me confused and with many douths.How do i tell my best friend thah im not so sure if i love her anymore without hurting her or making her hate me?
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just because your friend hasn't made you feel loved in the same way doesn't mean she doesn't love you just as much as your church friend. your best friend is probably scared to tell you these things because she is afraid of rejection, or maybe she's just not good with words and will show you in some other way. you could talk to her about how much you love her and hope that she would say something back, or just wait for things to play themselves out. but don't tell hre you're not sure if you love her anymore, thats basically giving away a loyal friend for no reason. i would definitley stay friends with both of them; two good friends are better than one! ;)
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Well maybe since you sent it to your friend at church and her reply was so touching for you you have higher expectations of what your other friends should be like too. So now your having seconds guesses about your best friend because she doesnt say thngs like that .Everyone is different all friends have differnt ways of showing they love you. The girl from church just happenes to be good at doing it threw words. Im sure your other friend loves you but maybe she jus doesnt let it out so much or has a different way to show it. Loosing best friends are hard i now .because you will say 'oh im never gonna talk to her again' or something but then you relize you really cant go a day without them. Pluse You can have two best friends keep them both. And if your concered maybe you dont feel like your bff's then talk to her about it, good friends are pretty resonable with stuff like that. Hope it works out for you:)
Jess<3
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Just because she isn't as good with words as this other girl, doesn't mean she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. People show love differently.
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