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Crushing on a guy I've known for a while..
I'm 15/F. I'm really crushing on a guy who's also 15. I've known him for 10 years now, give or take, and our relationship has been made up mostly of him teasing me.
I never really saw him as much else than "that guy who teases me a lot". Then about a week ago, I started liking him all of a sudden. But the problem is, now that I like him, I have no idea what to say to him! I really want to talk to him & such, but whenever I try I get really nervous and I can't come up with a good excuse to talk to him. If I do, then I come up with something really stupid. I actually talked to him about the weather...
I don't want to appear too obvious. =[
Advice please?
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Hey. If tis guy has been teasing you for ten years, believe it or not, it sounds like he really likes you too. Also, you've known each other for such a long time and probably have a lot of memories from school and stuff. You're probably shaking your head no right now that he doesn't like you if he's always teasing you but that's exactly what a guy does when they like you. If he didn't he'd rather be ignoring you or being a casual friend. I bet he's always felt the way about you that you recently have felt about him and has never been able to work up the guts since he felt that you didn't feel the same way about him. So he just continued teasing you hoping eventually you would start to like him, or get mad and ask him why he always does this. So anyways, I wouldn't be afraid to go up and ask him, he's the one who's probably been afraid to ask you for ten years! Keep that in mind. And if it turns out he just wants to be friends I wouldn't worry about it because you just started liking him. But I'm pretty sure he likes you =). I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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first its ok to be obvious. second if you like him talk to him about your hobbies. what your going through is kind of like stage fright but practice in the mirror and youll be ready to stand in front of a crowd
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Remember when you were in first grade and all the boys made fun of the girls they liked? Well apparently this guy still is trying that method of flirting. And trust me, alot of guys sadly do this. You know why? Because what happens when a guy is an ass to you or makes fun of you in some way? You usually say something back to them. And do you remember who they are the next day? Yes, of course you do. Obviously he likes you, or he wouldn't be "teasing" you to try and get your attention. So what you need to do is play his game. When he teases you, tease him back. Show him you are interested and strike up a conversation without going overboard or sounding like you are totally into him. By playing his game and playing hard to get, it is going to help you gradually start talking to him more on a regular basis and then maybe the crush thing you have going on might turn into something more :) Hope I helped. Need anymore advice about this or anything else, note my inbox. I'm always here to help. Best of luck!
~Sherah
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Well..you could talk about his teasing you. Just be like gosh don't you even stop teasing me I mean really, its not a nice thing to do. And then just kinda make fun of him a little and hopeuflly the conversation should continue from there and so on. Um..other things you can do not to look obvious is call him (if you have a class with him) and be like heyy umm..i kinda forget what the homework was for blahblah class. Or can you help me with it becasue i'm stupid haha. jk. Well I'm not sure how you usually act so I'm not sure what would be ovbious for you or not but I think that the don't you ever stop teasing me maybe i should tease you flirty teaseing stuff should work.
Hope I helped and goood luck.
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