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It was mean, but...
My best friend invited four girls, all who i'm friends with, over to her house right in front of my face while I was talking to them during lunch. She didn't even invite me even though I was standing right there talking to all of them. I was confused, so I asked her if I was invited and she said, "I don't care. You can come if you want. I knew you'd end up coming anyways." And she said that I always invite myself over, when I don't. Normally at lunch I always say, "Hey, do you wanna do something after school today?" or whenever I get off the bus I say that. But, she always starts walking to her house, so I just follow her..I didn't want to get in a fight over it, so I just said sorry even though I didn't do anything. Now she made me feel really bad, mad, & I'm not happy at all. I'm trying to just forget about it though. Anyone have any ideas of something FUN I can do this weekend?
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You didn't do anything wrong. Friends hang out so its not your fault that she would do that. It wasn't very nice of her invite the other girls and say to you that you invite yourself. She said she is your friend so talk to her and see ask if she will treat you like one. On the weekend you can hang out with your other friends and go for ice-cream and stuff like that. You'll have a great weekend. Also try to give her some space she probably didn't know that you didn't mean any harm like that. But I hope everything goes well for you.
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No you didnt do anything wrong...it was rude of her to invite all the other girls and not you...I bet if you didnt go to the party she'd end up calling you and wondering where you were...it will be a shock when she doesnt see her best friend there...you could make plans or other people...went movies and eat ice cream...or even hang out with your family
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You're right, it doesn't appear that you did anything wrong. You're her "friend" & it's kind of rude to invite a bunch of girls over in front of you. If she didn't want you coming over, she could atleast have the courtesy to ask when you weren't right there. You've apologized & if she's still going to make you feel bad or excluded, then maybe she's not your friend. Atleast not a very good one. You can either talk to her about it & tell her you have no intentions of being rude & "inviting yourself over" or following her around all the time. Just give her some space for now & in the meantime, try to find some friends who will include you & make you happy. This weekend? Have some "me time" - get a pedicure, pick up a hobby, rent a movie or do something you normally wouldn't get to do (or have time for) with your friends. Or maybe hang out with someone you haven't seen in awhile. Just try to enjoy your weekend & not worry about anything. :)
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