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crush,bestfirend,and me
Lisa(not her real name) likes Tommy(not his real name) for 2 years,Tommy likes me(he told me im not concetied) and I like him however I cant go out with tommy b/c lisa likes tommy and lisa is MY best friend and im the only one who know she likes him but Tommy doesnt no Lisa likes him b/c he only thinks of her as a sister and doesnt like her but i like him but i dont no what to do?
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If she has liked him for 2 years, I don't know if I would go for him, since she is your best friend. But it is a choice that is up to you to decide.
If she just sort of liked him, it would be different, but she must really like this guy.
Though he doesn't feel the same way about her as she feels about him, for you to go out with him would be stepping on her toes, and she will most likely be very hurt and harbor hard feelings toward you about it.
But, she may get over it.
If you really like they guy, talk to her about it. Be sure that if she says that she doesn't mind, she isn't saying so just to make you happy. If she is, she will still be hurt and have hard feelings.
Friends should always respect each others feelings. Yah, she should respect yours, but you should respect hers first in this situation, because she has had feelings for this guy long before you.
However, you ARE entitled to your happiness. If this guy will truly make you happy, then go for it. But, if you have a shred of doubt, don't risk a dear friendship.
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Well I think you should tell Lisa that you like Tommy too. And see if its alright with her. If she says its cool to go out with Tommy then you should. But she might just be saying it because she your friend right? And you don't want to hurt your friend for a boy. Its gonna be hard to tell her you like Tommy too. Would you go out with him even though your friend would be crying, I don't know if she would do that but this is just a question, so you put your friend first right? So just tell her and see what comes out of it. I hope everything goes well for you!
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