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Love is miserable?
I love this guy I've been dating for a year now. Our parents let us be together, but make our lives miserable because we are together. We still are in love but he's letting the outside world that tells us not to be together get to him saying things like, "It doesn't make sense for the one thing that you love, to make you miserable also." How should I respond to this?
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that's a little harsh, but obviously all your parents are doing a good enough job of making you miserable for him to say that. he needs to talk to his parents and you need to talk to yours. they need to know that if they loved you they'd be respectful of your feelings and not hurt you and make your life harder that way. that's not fair to either of you.
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You should respond to it by questioning his feelings of "love" in the first place. Love isn't miserable. Love should be happiness no matter what kind of situation you're in. I wouldn't break it off with him over this since you've been dating for a year, that's a long time, but I would have a talk with him, see how things happen in a few weeks, and then make a decision.
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Honestly? If he feels that loving you makes him so miserable, you need to tell him to buzz off.
Who is he to say such things to you if he loves you so? Sounds like a jerk to let everyone and everything else dictate his feelings for you.
Why should you put up with a guy talking to you like that, year of dating or not? You don't deserve to be told things like that. It just makes you feel like crap, doesn't it?
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Sounds like a regular Shakespeare.
To be blunt-
Dump his sorry ass.
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