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cliques
i really really want to become friends with this clique. what's the best way to do this? i'm having a party on saturday, and they're going to be there, so how should i go about it?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Like, by clique, do you mean like..the meaner/popularer girls? If so don't waste your time with them..there all fake & they suck. [I know this,because I'm best friends with all of them.]
If you just mean a group of people, that seem cool, or whatever.. then, just go up to them, & start like talking about school or something, & just be super friendly, give big smiles, & sound really interested in what they say to you. & then at the end of the night, if everyone goes well..just be like "guys, i had a tottaly chill time with you.. we should hang out again sometime!" & i'm sure they'll say yes.. & then BAM. you just made a couple new potential friends. (:
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just be yourself. if they don't like you the way you are then don't be friends with them and find other people to hang out with.
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Be nice to them. Accomidate them with whatever they need at your party! And when youre at the party, try to stay with them. Dont be weird or clingy - they wont like you. Just casually go over and be like, "Hey! Whats up? Are you guys having funn?" Dont act like you really really want to become friends with them. Getting into cliques takes WEEKS, MONTHS! Take it slow.
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just be yourself. when they come to your party, greet them at the door, strike up a conversation. after you start talking for awhile, just ask if they mind if you sit with them at lunch someday. they will probably say yes. just be nice, and be yourself.
you cant fight fate.
whatever happens, HAPPENS.
good luck<3
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