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friends or not even aquaintences?
ok so i have a black friend scotti. and another couple friends sara,savannah, joanna,abby,sterling ,and tesia: for the main people... scotti started this thing all of a sudden where she was quiet about it but then i heard she was talking behind my back about me. i confronted her online asking why she was mad at me. she said she was mad at me for being a cunt, whore, slutbaged hoeface bitch. i dont get it after we hang out visit my sailboat huge house she like hates me all of a sudden!??? she wants to beat me up and she has gotten many of my so-called friends to hate me too now. and im not a whore not even close. ok i do flirt but i only have like 20 guys after me rite now. shes is trying to take all the friends i have and its makin me rele mad. ive cried twice today from it and everyone saw me and i cant trust any1 who talks to her. im not sure what to do but if some1 tries to take your friends away from you what should you do?
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Well, sounds as though her problem could be that she is so green with envy that it makes her personality ugly.
I'd wager that the attention you get from the guys is a part of it, but that can't be helped.
You say she came to visit you and saw your sailboat and your huge house- which I automatically presume your family has a plentiful income. She, surely presumes the same.
It's sad, really, because she is jealous of you because of your parent's possessions. You don't own a sailboat, or a big house- they do. You just live there.
It's sad that she has become so nasty about it.
You can try to talk to her about it and try to get down to what is really bothering her about you. You can try to salvage your friendship with her, though if I were in your shoes, I wouldn't bother.
Reason being: If she were a real friend, she wouldn't be acting this way. She wouldn't treat you like this. She wouldn't make it a goal in life to turn your "friends" against you.
Learning experience? Now you know who your real friends are. Real friends will stick by you at this time, not turn to her side. And if they go along with her, they aren't your friends to begin with, nor are they worth your effort.
It's sad to me, that so many girls will allow themselves to be used as floor mats by those they want to call friend. Don't be one of those girls. Don't let people wipe their feet on you.
Stand tall and keep in mind you are not above them, but you are above their actions. You refuse to take such abuse from some silly high school girl because she was once your friend. If she and her new followers no longer want to be friends with you, that is their own too bad. Their loss, not yours. It's hard to think this way, but well worth the effort.
Don't let her know you are sad and crying. That just shows her how much she is getting to you. That's her objective in this. Keep your head high and realize that you don't need friends like that anyway. That goes for her, and any other former friend who follows her lead.
I heard something in my youth that made quite an impression on me. I will pass it on to you.
"It is better to have one true friend than a hundred fake friends."
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I would say to ask her why she thinks that but im not sure thats a good idea. Anyone could have started a rumor about you. You know saying that you said something. She is probably just jealous of you and your friends. But if you act like she doesnt bother you she will eventually give up. Just dont talk about her or mention her to anyone. When she sees that your not interested with her nonsense she will eventually give up.
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