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how do i know when im ready?
how do i know when im ready for sex?
me and my friend snuck out the other night
to meet my boyfriend [ we werent going out then ] and he wanted to 69 + feel me + finger me a such all i wanted to do was make out. but i really didnt know how to say "no" and we just didnt end up making it there. but i wanna know why he wants all this if were only 13 ! and we just turned it like him a month and a half + me two weeks ago . its insane i really dont know what to do. cuz in school he never talks to me , or hugs me or anything and my friend said that she told him to hug me and then he was like why ? and she was like just do it. and he said only if theres a reason + and she came up with something an was like " she thinks you dont like her" and then his friend said " what do you mean he dosnt " so why would he wanna do all that if he doesnt like me + am i even ready to do anything like that? like ive made out before + kissed but hes different. HELP ! !
britnee
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the guy probably doesnt like you. if he wont kiss or hug u in public then he just using u. do not have sex with him cos you are gonna regret it. you should only have sex with someone that is special to you and vice versa (with the other person). my advice for you is to dump him cos he is not worth you sneaking out at night and for all i know, he most likely made a bet woth his friends to see if he could have sex with you or not. you know that is dangerous right? there are lot's of crazy people out there and you could get raped. be careful
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If he's not giving you attention at school.. I think he's using you.
Young guys just want to get into your pants.. He should hug you because he wants to and he shouldn't need a reason for it! He's not worth it. He should talk to you and hug you, hang out with you. But it sounds like... maybe you're not the only one he's trying to get with.
It sounds like he wants a friends with benefits sort of relationship. He only wants you around to make out and try to go all the way with.
I say, ditch this guy.
You deserve someone a lot better than how that guy treats you. I don't think you're ready to do all that. Especially with a guy like that!
You'll find someone who respects you and treats you nicely, and won't bother you about all that sexual stuff.
Have you ever thought what would happen if you did do that stuff? He would probably ditch/ignore you and go off with some other girl. He would probably treat you worse than he already does now.
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you guys are way too young to think about "69", being fingered, etc. It looks as though (and i hate to break it to you) that he could be using you. If he would have liked you, you would expect the least of the things he could do is hug you. But I also think you should talk to him one-on-one privateley, and maybe discuss what your feeeling; like ask him if he did something like this to you, why doesn't he talk to you, treat you well, etc.
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What really need to think about is the reprucussions of hacing sex. Like getting pregnant, or getting and STD. IF you aren't ready to deal with those, then you aren't ready for sex.
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first of all, 13 is DEFINITLY WAYYY to young for sex.
and secondly...if you have to question your self if you're ready or not...then you arent. You will know when you are ready, and it should be in at least a few years.
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and ps. if he wont talk to you in the hallway...or hug you? thats kinda questionable. be sure hes not using you hun.
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ummm it sounds like your not ready your only 13 and if thats all he is after then your better off weith out him it seems like he just wants you for all of that nasty older ppl stuff
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