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friend needs help


Question Posted Friday January 19 2007, 9:27 pm

okay so my firend had unprotected sex for the 1st time im trying to help her find a way to get the EC pill but we dont know how...she is freaking out and like refuses to tell her mom im just trying to keep her calm and everything so my question is how long should we wait to see if theres any sign of pregnancy? where i live you have to be 18 and older in order to get the pill over the counter but shes 16 and yeah idk aha any suggestions????? help asap!! thank you =]

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Brandi_S answered Saturday January 20 2007, 12:07 am:
Well, for me to give you suggestions as to how to get something you have to be 18 to purchase at age 16, I would be breaking the law.

The only choice she has for emergency contraception is to tell her mother. However, I don't advise this ever being used as a birth control method. (It was originally intended for women of childbearing age who have been raped or sexually assaulted.) Her mother can help her make a choice that is best for her.

If she doesn't want to tell her mom, she can go to your county's health department (assuming you live in the US) and talk to them about what her options are. It costs nothing.

As for signs of pregnancy here is a link:

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I would suggest if she becomes 2 weeks late for her period to get a test. This can also be done at the health department at no cost.

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gigi313 answered Friday January 19 2007, 11:55 pm:
The best thing to do is to contact the nearest office of Planned Pregnancy. They will know what kind of actions are available to her at this point. They can also fix your friend up with birth control, and (unless state law says otherwise) they won't tell parents.
Please do this right away. When she's able to stop worrying, you'll stop worrying, and there's nothing like the feeling of solving a difficult problem! gigi

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shaneekawa answered Friday January 19 2007, 11:00 pm:
tell her not to have sex she should ber doing her homework not ber boyfriend shes not even legal yet

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