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boyfriend family
my bf doesnt have a dad and so obviously, the families a little messed up. hes always fighting with his brother. hes 18 and my bf is 15. his brother thinks its funny to piss him off and my bf flips out and they get into some big fighting match, cussing and everything else. i yell at my bf since i certainly cant yell at his brother, and tell him to stop fighting with him and all that n how he's just making it worse. then he says hes just defending himself and the times im not there it gets bad and im on the phone so i cant do much. so just not his brother heated up his lighter and burned my bf on his back with it. and obviously, it started a fight. his mom and his uncle thats living there dont do much so me, a 15 year old,5'2, and 125 pounds trying to stop them isnt working. what can i doo?? and do you think it would be right if i yelled at his brother? i just dont want his mom to say she doesnt want me around anymore. please help?
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My boyfriend is the same with his sisters boyfriend. They always fight and argue. Obviously they need a male role model in their lives to tell them what to do but they dont. If you havent already, sit down and talk to your bf about it, say its bothering you and u want him to stop.
Maybe try to get your boyfriend out of the house more, try and get him as far away from his brother as possible. You could try asking his brother if he could stop. Tell your boyfriend that you dont want him to fight and if he could try and make an effort to stop for YOU. Try not to threaten him with a break up unless your desperate for them to stop. If your not there it is hard but just keep trying to convince him to stop. If your boyfriend doesnt have a lock on his door already, maybe he should get one so he can have some privacy from his brother. Hope i helped =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Well, if she's not doing anything, you who care for your bf, should step in if it comes to his bro burning your bf's back.
Next time when the fight breaks out, jump in the middle becuase I'm sure that neither wants to beat you up. Then yell at his bro to back off right now and drag your bf off to somewhere else. Yank him if you have to.
Then tell you bf that the next time you guys get in a fight, you're going to be so pissed off and if he doesnt walk away, threaten him with a break up.
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