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i messed up BIG TIME!
16/f
okay well me and my bf have been going out for 8 months and day before yesterday i spent the night with my friend but he thought i was going to cheat on him or lie to him about something well, later on that nite i told my bf that i was gonna get ymy phone charger from him then go back to her house well instead me and my friends went to a party. my bf found out this was around 2 in the morning well my bf found out but played it off like he had no idea but there was a couple guys there that knew him and called him but after the party i went over to his house and spent the nite over there and talked well we're still together but he is still a little wierd around and i understand he cant trust me anymore but someone help how should i get things to the way they were before.. i rate high!!
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Communicate! Tell him how you feel, you still love him, don't hide anything and just be upfront and spill your feelings! Tell him, you feel like he is acting weird around you and ask him why? Tell him you understand you have lost his trust but you want him and you want to go back to the way you both were!
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If he doesn't trust you because you lied to him... well you gotta earn his trust back. Talking is always the best way, be upfront about everything that happened, explain the whole situation to him, why you did whatever, apologise for anything you did wrong, and then leave it... try and be the best girlfriend to him you can, make it up to him. And be completely trustworthy in everything, so that he won't have any ammunition to trhow at you from now on... as in, if he asks you something be completely honest, so you can earn his trust again. And let him know you love him completely :)
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Getting his trust back won't be that easy. It's going to take some time but it's not like you did anything really bad to hurt him. If he really liked you he would understand and just get through it, and over it. You need to talk to him. Explain to him why you did it and everything that happened. I know that it might not be a big deal, but he deserves to know. If he's still a little mad about the situation just give it some time. He'll get over it eventually but just don't do anything like that again to hurt him even if it wasn't your intention.
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there is really no other way than just to tell him that you're sorry about what happened and that you'll make it up to him. Ask him how you could make it up to him?? that's a tough one though, because i don't really knwo him, so i can't tell you what would make him react, but you know him better, what would make him react? just think about that and ask him what you could do to make it better
xoxo
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